[asdfjkmelanie]

this is really long, sorry D:

so i made a big mistake. i hung out with one of my exes and i thought it'd be fine, but then he started kissing me while we were at the movies and for some retarded reason i kissed him back and now i don't know what to do. cause after that i thought i liked him again, and this lasted for a while, but then i got over it. because my friends and family do not like him at all. because he's two faced sometimes and he's a jerk to a lot of people. and im not as attracted to him as i was before. now he even like talks to me about seeing me daily when he gets his license and getting married and having kids and a lot of other things. and the other time when i tried to break it off with him. he got all depressed and i couldnt take it. cause i still care about him just i dont like him as much as he likes me. he sent me depressing texts like "oh i used to think the world was a horrible place and i thought that was why i had you." & "i can't live knowing that the guy you want can't be me." anything i can do? or should i just stay with him and learn to try and love him?

[chiho]

sadly... u can be mean and give him a nice fist.
and just say "go die" like all typical girl do ^^"

[peppermintsugar]

You say "I thought I knew what I was feeling, I was wrong, I'm sorry but this isn't going to work out."
Staying with him won't fix anything. End it now.

[Danieruchann]

It's best to just end it.
You might need to be blunt with him and make it obvious that you don't want to be with him anymore.

"oh i used to think the world was a horrible place and i thought that was why i had you." & "i can't live knowing that the guy you want can't be me."

^ It sounds like he's guilting you to be with him by saying those things.

[muffinx3]

^
I agree.
He will be fine without your love, he's just being over-dramatic so you'll pity him.

[MNLV27]

Just tell him life is unfair, things doesn't always go your way. Learn from it and move on.

Or you can just ignore him no matter how depressed he gets. After breaking up with him, you basically have nothing to do with him anymore. What he does afterwards is his business, it will never be your fault.

[x SaRaNg HaE x]

You can't be bound to him out of guilt trips and pity. That's obviously not how love works.
Just tell him. Prolonging it isn't going to make it any better.

[Stupidity]

I don't think you should stay with him, things WILL become worse.
Just break it off with him. ASAP.

[Bisu]

tell him to go kill himself.
its the best way

[wees2dee]

if he's doing this then it means that he just wants someone to hang on, he wants someone to talk to and stuff but if she doesnt understand that you dont feel the same way then why is he still going on like you two are meant to last forever? just do it, straight forward, it may be hard and he may becoming depressed, but you cant live your life while he hangs on to you like this

[hitokiri007]

tell him life sucks, stop being a whiny baby, suck it up and take it like a man.

[odddodo]

this is really long, sorry D:

so i made a big mistake. i hung out with one of my exes and i thought it'd be fine, but then he started kissing me while we were at the movies and for some retarded reason i kissed him back and now i don't know what to do. cause after that i thought i liked him again, and this lasted for a while, but then i got over it. because my friends and family do not like him at all. because he's two faced sometimes and he's a jerk to a lot of people. and im not as attracted to him as i was before. now he even like talks to me about seeing me daily when he gets his license and getting married and having kids and a lot of other things. and the other time when i tried to break it off with him. he got all depressed and i couldnt take it. cause i still care about him just i dont like him as much as he likes me. he sent me depressing texts like "oh i used to think the world was a horrible place and i thought that was why i had you." & "i can't live knowing that the guy you want can't be me." anything i can do? or should i just stay with him and learn to try and love him?

A true man sees a woman as just part of the puzzle of his life. A guy who thinks life is nothing without his girl just means that he hasn't emotionally matured yet from a boy into a man, since he hasn't built up the other aspects of his life enough to hold up, and he shouldn't be talking about things like marriage when he hasn't reached this point yet.

Unless he doesn't mean it and is only saying it to lure you back, in which case he's being manipulative, knowing that you can't resist (and it seems to be working, according to you).

Either way, it's not a good thing.

[sus]

u cant learn to love someone
if u dont love him then dont string him on...
make it clear and keep away from him so he can get over u

[joie.de.vivre]

lol at the typical boohoo, "depressed" line.

tell him to get a life and to stop bothering you.

there's no use in learning and trying to love someone/something.

[secretwishess]

Just do it harshly & break it to him. I mean
he will qet over it. Maybe takes awhile. But he will.
You cant stay with him & " try " to love him when you dont.
It`s like your stayinq with him cause you pity him. Thats even worst.

[x.3christine]

break up with him
he's trying to manipulate you into staying with him
when you break up with him just make it clear and to the point

[Nana544]

Tell him straight up that you don't like him! Tell him to leave you alone.

[perfect visual]

tell him to go kill himself.
its the best way

OMFG so funny

like my stomach hurts from laughing


but yeah, i dont think you need my input... you know what to do

[queenxmabel]

Roll up some newspaper and say, "BAD BOY! NO!"

[evans]

^ LOL.

he sounds like he's trying to guilt you into staying together with him, like he knows that you've a soft heart. but being like that won't make you happy. end it by telling him you'll be there for him only as a friend. and stay firm on that. you can't possibly let it drag all the way till he proposes right? the sooner you end it the better. or else you can stay by him till he gets better, then make him break up with you by doing things he dislikes.