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Just broken up. :( hmm what to do...

#1 User is offline   AMIbunny 

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Posted 30 October 2009 - 02:21 PM

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Posted 30 October 2009 - 02:24 PM

:/ Why would his mom hate you? From what you've said, it doesn't seem like you did anything wrong.

Give him a couple days to cool off then try talking to him again.
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#3 User is offline   Javus 

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Posted 30 October 2009 - 02:50 PM

If you didn't do anything wrong(seems like, need more details) then you shouldn't feel sorry. Try and talk it out with him again. However no one should ever hit someone in a relationship(even just him getting close to that level is iffy).
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Posted 30 October 2009 - 03:01 PM

i think maybe he needs time alone since he got mad over you "following" him. :X
maybe wait a while? 3 days + and try to talk to him.
maybe something else could be bothering him, too. :/
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#5 User is offline   Mr. Chan 

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Posted 30 October 2009 - 03:39 PM

Congratulations. Welcome to the single life.
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Posted 30 October 2009 - 04:03 PM

QUOTE (Mr. Chan @ Oct 31 2009, 12:39 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Congratulations. Welcome to the single life.


You're telling her to find a new one >.<"~
well that works too..
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#7 User is offline   Mr. Chan 

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Posted 30 October 2009 - 04:04 PM

QUOTE (chiho @ Oct 30 2009, 04:03 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
You're telling her to find a new one >.<"~


Where in my post did I say that? Are you stupid or retarded? Are you seeing things?
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#8 User is offline   stinastaysober 

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Posted 30 October 2009 - 08:58 PM

Not getting much out of the story.
Sounds like I need to hear his side of the story. :-/
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Posted 30 October 2009 - 09:03 PM

Graduate from middle school, come back, then maybe I'll give you some advice.
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#10 User is offline   pinklibby 

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Posted 30 October 2009 - 09:15 PM

Give him some space and see what he does... Rent some movies, hang out with your girlfriends, go out with a friend, live your life and try not to worry so much about him til he comes crawling back.

It seems you care about him a lot and feel strongly for him, but if he comes close to hitting you, girl that is a bad guy. That's scary! What if he did it for real if you got back together?


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Posted 30 October 2009 - 09:27 PM

QUOTE (stinastaysober @ Oct 30 2009, 09:58 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Not getting much out of the story.
Sounds like I need to hear his side of the story. :-/


yeah... i mean 2 years together dude needs some space, well from what i read.
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#12 User is offline   anonymous.A 

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Posted 30 October 2009 - 11:21 PM

you guys lasted for 2 years, obviously.. this relationship means something to the both of you right?
and yeah give him a few days to think about it and everything, but i think you should also show him how much
he means to you in those few days. dont be annoying (do you get what i mean?) like find a way to show
him that he means more to you than he thinks.
dont give up this relationship. good luck =)
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Posted 31 October 2009 - 01:07 AM

I would tell you to use your time to think about this whole thing since this should be a cooling off period. You love him, but is he good for you?
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Posted 31 October 2009 - 02:00 PM

You should qive more details since all your sayinq is just :: your followinq him around.
Just let thinqs cool down, since you said it was a pretty biq fiqht. Like he said, maybe you
quys can see how much you really need each other.
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#15 User is offline   xDMufffins 

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Posted 31 October 2009 - 02:06 PM

Sounds like you did something pretty bad to make him go off like that.

I feel like you're leaving something out.
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Posted 31 October 2009 - 06:55 PM

oh hun, i'm in a similar situation.
We didn't start going out till February but yesterday was our 2nd year meeting anniversary. I don't know if his parents know yet, probably not. I hope not - for the same reason why you didn't want his mum to know. we broke up yesterday because he felt that things aren't going to work out. he promised to think things over and tell me. we didn't specify a time - i wanted to give him space so I'm just waiting. i love him so much. he said that he still has feelings for me even though there are not as deep as before. I really want us to be able to have a fair new start, with no bad memories. i think that we deserve that much. it sucks not knowing when he's going to talk to me. but at the same time i'm dreading it because of the possibility that he may decide he doesn't want to get back together. I want to maybe wait a week and then talk to him first so badly but I don't think that it's a good idea.
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Posted 31 October 2009 - 06:59 PM

QUOTE (AMIbunny @ Oct 30 2009, 02:21 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
EDIT 10/31/09

So i talked to him today on the phone..and he was saying how he doesn't want to stay in this relationship anymoree He's sick of our arguments all the time and he says he doesnt love me.... But than, he said that we need space to see if we really need each other..... He says if he thought about it, he'll call me on Saturday next week T-T

T_T i cant believe this is happening. arrrgh!! T_T i love him so much. he's an amazing guy....


haha he's using this time to get to know other girls and will probably sex them up.
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Posted 31 October 2009 - 07:55 PM

I wouldn't give up, it's really hard to find someone that you can be with, especially since you guys have been together for almost 2 years, something you guys should really appreciate. Arguments make the relationship stronger, he just needs time to think about the whole situation, if he really does love you, he will always end up back into your arms. I've never given up with my girlfriend, no matter how much and what we go through, i'll always wait no matter how long and try to resolve the problems that was created. Both of you just have to put effort into resolving this issue. Good luck.
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Posted 01 November 2009 - 04:27 AM

hmm if hes an amazin guy
why do u guys always fite?

he needs his space now
but in the mean time i think u should like not get ur hopes up
n stay as if its over.... cos ya if he say he dun love u no more.. then theres some truth in it rite?
n u shouldnt stay with someone cos u NEED them.....

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Posted 01 November 2009 - 12:36 PM

ok now he's toying with you /c he feel like he can. You should not be his puuppy dog and wait for HIm to decide on YOUR relationship together.

once a guys says that HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU ANYMORE, forget his ass.
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