so basically, long story short :
so theres this boy that has liked me on and off. he would kinda confess to me that he likes me.. but then right after he would completely stop talking to me. and i guess everytime he told me he liked me, i would.. take it for granted? and not take it to the heart. but there was this one time, when i actually told him that i do like him, but i guess because i was on vacation.. i was pretty out of it? i found out that he was dating another girl. so i then lied to him, telling him that i dont like him anymore, when i still did. i've been dying to let go of him, and i did, but whenever i'm COMPLETELY over him.. something happens, and i seem to run back to him again. no matter what he says about my friends 'omg he looks like a girl' 'why the hell would you hang out with him. it makes you look like a fa g' , i cant stop these feelings.
& i hate to admit it.. but whenever i see girls talking to him, i get so mad & down.. its unbelieveable.
& to keep it short, he is an bubble gum, hes so unconsiderate and demanding, everytime i tell my friends about this they always ask me 'why are you still friends with this guy? you deserve better..'
what do i do? i want to get over him, cause im doen hurting. but no matter what i do.. my feelings just keep running back to him. i feel as if im slowly going crazy..
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i need to get over him.
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Posted 31 October 2009 - 01:00 AM
Just keep reminding yourself how horrible a guy he is.
Go out with your friends and have fun. Don't let someone like him kill your day.
And of course, remember that as long as you're hung over him, you'll never be able to find that one guy you really deserve to be with.
Go out with your friends and have fun. Don't let someone like him kill your day.
And of course, remember that as long as you're hung over him, you'll never be able to find that one guy you really deserve to be with.
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Posted 31 October 2009 - 01:07 AM
QUOTE (x SaRaNg HaE x @ Oct 31 2009, 01:00 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Just keep reminding yourself how horrible a guy he is.
Go out with your friends and have fun. Don't let someone like him kill your day.
And of course, remember that as long as you're hung over him, you'll never be able to find that one guy you really deserve to be with.
Go out with your friends and have fun. Don't let someone like him kill your day.
And of course, remember that as long as you're hung over him, you'll never be able to find that one guy you really deserve to be with.
aww, how sincere of you. It really touched my heart.
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Posted 31 October 2009 - 02:36 AM
tbh. i don't think you'll ever get over him 'completely'.
personal experience, just stop with all this effort to forget. stop caring if you like him or not. just let go.
the ideal thing to do is :go back to him, say what you want to say. ask what you want to ask.
say "friends."
then let the relationship fade away.
and get on with your life, goals, social life, family, etc.
and turn the chapter.
but. i don't really know anyone who actually does that finalizing thing. so. eh. keep your chin up. there are other things going on in the world,
don't let it this blip bother you too much. it's not worth remembering if it's stopping you.
personal experience, just stop with all this effort to forget. stop caring if you like him or not. just let go.
the ideal thing to do is :go back to him, say what you want to say. ask what you want to ask.
say "friends."
then let the relationship fade away.
and get on with your life, goals, social life, family, etc.
and turn the chapter.
but. i don't really know anyone who actually does that finalizing thing. so. eh. keep your chin up. there are other things going on in the world,
don't let it this blip bother you too much. it's not worth remembering if it's stopping you.
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Posted 31 October 2009 - 02:43 PM
I tried everything to forget about this guy but the thing is that
I over reacted and cried a lot with sad songs... being emo and stuff LOL
that helped me. Crying until nothing is left to fall down your eyes
and time will help you forget about someone
it just doesnt happen over night
I over reacted and cried a lot with sad songs... being emo and stuff LOL
that helped me. Crying until nothing is left to fall down your eyes
and time will help you forget about someone
it just doesnt happen over night
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Posted 31 October 2009 - 06:19 PM
I need help on this solution.
My suggestion is why not try to overwrite it with another relationship? 0.0"
My suggestion is why not try to overwrite it with another relationship? 0.0"
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