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#1 User is offline   ShadowMax76 

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Posted 31 October 2009 - 04:36 PM

do you normally keep your distance from people?

physically, emotionally, socially,

however you want to take it. friends, s/o's, family, etc.
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#2 User is offline   teelee 

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Posted 31 October 2009 - 07:45 PM

Most of the time, no, I am actually a very physical person, I shake hands with people when I first meet them and it doesnt take long for me to get comfortable around people. Tell them personal stuff? No, but if they ask, and it only involves me, I'd probably tell them (unless the question was WAAAY personal, ex: have you and your bf done the deed?).
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#3 User is offline   AnthonyKkoKko 

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Posted 31 October 2009 - 08:25 PM

i honestly dnt have any personal space XD
i talk to random ppl, even tho they get freaked out by me sometimes cuz theyre not used to making conversations with random kids.
i always say comments to ppl ^^
like yesterday during halloween, there wuz this guy in a bill clinton's mask, lik the ones u wud wear to rob a bank. honestly, i thot he was my friend and i was lik stop... and then i sed some snappy things to him and tried runnin away and then i saw my friend who i thought was in the mask walk down the hallway. and i was oh cr*p. and i say things tht r in my mind OUTLOUD unintentionally. yesterday i nearly got harrassed by a gr 11-12 in a gorilla costume lik the one from spongebob.
i shud start keeping things to myself....
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#4 User is offline   mrsjaejoong 

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Posted 31 October 2009 - 08:42 PM

nope. I'm a bit of an open book
I'll start off meeting ppl with a handshake, and by the end of the day, I'll say 'bye' with a hug.
and i talk nonstop =)
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#5 User is offline   sixth. 

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Posted 31 October 2009 - 09:54 PM

i really value my personal space when it comes to my family. i guess growing up i'd always been taught to be independent since my parents were always working, and they aren't exactly the most physically affectionate people in the world.

with everyone else, i'm a mix. sometimes i'll be extremely comfortable around people, whether they be close friends or strangers, whilst other times i'll stick to myself. if you come off as friendly, i'll return the favour. but if you're quiet, or show no interest, then i'll do the same.
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#6 User is offline   wendaYYY 

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Posted 31 October 2009 - 10:00 PM

I'm a private person with emotions and life philosophy.

ARRGGHH!! Just everytime that I want to talk about the ironies of life, everyone looks at me with zipped mouths like I'm a freak or something.

So I've figured, that it's best to be quiet about your beliefs and family details. They're irrelevant in conversation, unless both sides want to open up.
Money talks and my happy poopoo walks.
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#7 User is offline   peppermintsugar 

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Posted 31 October 2009 - 10:04 PM

I'm a private person that doesn't have any privacy or secrets, if that makes any sense at all.
I don't really like talking about things, or feelings, or whatnot, but it's rare that I even have anything to talk about anyways. Besides, I live with my boyfriend, not much privacy in that anyways lol.
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#8 User is offline   forgottenmemories 

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Posted 31 October 2009 - 10:20 PM

I guess it depends on who I'm around. If they're easy to talk to and fun to be around, I'm pretty much an open book. If they ask questions, I usually tell them... but sometimes just bits and parts of it because I'm afraid I'd bore them talking about my life, or sometimes I'm scared they're gonna use those information against me. =X
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#9 User is offline   Danieruchann 

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Posted 31 October 2009 - 10:57 PM

if im with my family, im very private. i don't really enjoy talking to them. im just kind of disconnected from them. i dont really know why..

but with my friends im pretty open about most stuff.
it just depends on the friennd.
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#10 User is offline   leeahh 

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Posted 01 November 2009 - 03:26 PM

my physical personal space really only exists when I'm travelling on public transport.. I HATE IT when guys/men are soo close it's like omfg you don't need to take up much space! pervs.

but yes I'd be the type who'd give someone I just met a bearhug by the end of the day loool!

emotionally though I do keep my distance because well people can't be trusted
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#11 User is offline   A-choo 

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Posted 01 November 2009 - 11:58 PM

physically, nawt that touchy pweez ;X

emotionally, only share thoughts wif like 2 people normally :]

socially, they hab to ... atleast dun't do drugs n stuff? o; n has to be like teh "clean" type. I unno, i dun't reallli block anyone

from this group, unless .. they juss look realli like.. "unsocial-able" o___o;



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