[SoulTears1]

so me and my gf havent been ourselves.. after a fight we had with something i did, which isnt related to this, but she mentioned that she doesnt feel comfortable with me SOMETIMES, and i asked her how she was like i dont knw..

so the thing is, my gf hasnt really showed me her love, she hasnt really did anything to show her love for me or anything.. and i kinda got sick of it, but i still love her.. last night she told me i dont love u as much as u love me.. i was really shocked!
she said but i dnt wanna lose u, and i was like dnt worry ull find someone else, she then said am not looking for one..

so i told her what do u wnana do? she was like i dnt knw.. so i told her to think abt it and then tell me waht she exactly wants.. the thing is i dnt think it will ever be the same that i knw now that she doesnt love me a lot.. it really hurt inside that i thought she does love me more than i love her.. i actually thought she was just hiding her emotions.. but i guess what i felt before was right.. so what do i do?? should i break up with her??? and how? i really dnt knw what to say.. to be honest am kinda sick of trying to impress her all the time, and making her laugh and feel better.. she doesnt do the same for me and i hate it.. a part of me wants to break it up with her, but dont knw how.. i really did everything i could ever do for her, i've been there for her always and i did everything in my power to make her happy and she knws it.. but for her, she never did anything for me, never showed me her emotions or even do like cute little things to make me special and happy..

help me! i dnt knw what to do

[moot11]

The relationship sounds dysfunctional, and frankly, she sounds like a drain on your emotional resources, without offering any emotional support in return. It doesn't sound like you like her very much either, I think you know what to do.

[chiho]

your typing is a mess... it's missing letters and u swapped the letters... was that on purpose?

[ShadowMax76]

something about all this makes me sick...

[MNLV27]

In a relationship, one person will always love the other just a bit more, it's never going to be we both love each other equally or we love each other the same amount. In your case, you're the one that loves her more. She still loves you though. You guys need to communicate more.
You can always just break up and go find a girl who is expressive of her feelings and who loves you more than you do to her.

[Cakee`]

whatever you did must've been really messed up. you say that it doesn't have anything to do with how you guys are, but i'm sure that it does.

[donporkuloin]

whatever you did must've been really messed up. you say that it doesn't have anything to do with how you guys are, but i'm sure that it does.

I gotta agree with her. Whatever you did had a lot to do with her drifting apart from you. Honestly. You know this relationship is going to end sooner or later. Whatever you did to piss her off don't do it again in your next relationship.

[snowii]

when she says 'idk' its usually because she wants you to decide. so do you wna work it out with her? or break it off? just because she said she doesnt love you as much as you love her, doesnt mean she didnt love you at all.
maybe what you did screwed her over and shes hurting right now and have loss some confidence in the relationship. why not give her some time and support?

[sus]

if she doesnt know wat she wants it means that shes torn bw stayin with u n leavin...
hmm obviousli she still has feelings for u....
i mean it would be hurtful to hear her say that she dun love u as much as u
but thats reality.. ur not goin to love each other at equal amounts
someones goin to love the other more... it changes in a relationship...
if u realli wanna be with her
talk to her bout these issues ...
n help her clarify wat she wants ...

dont just give up like this.. when clearli theres still some hope...

[luvelyasian]

i'm in a very similar situation, but i'm like the girl you're describing =/

the way i see it is, definitely there is something you may have done, or there is something that is making the girl hold back from fully loving you and expressing affection.

i'm sure she cares for you, but there are unresolved feelings that are keeping her from moving foward. the problem is LACK of communication. there has to be a way for her to tell you what's bothering her and what needs to be done to work on the troubled feelings.

i say if you love her and want to make it work, keep treating her the same, don't withold affections ect. out of spite, but be patient with her, while making SURE she openly tells you what's wrong ect. it can't be one sided forever if this relationship is going to work out.

best of luck to you !

[MR. LEE'S]

oh dang- it must be hard for you, i think you should break up with her. she's just- complicated and confusing.