I'm not a huge fan of people only wanting to talk to me on the internet instead of face-to-face when we practically see each other almost everyday.
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Stalker? Ehhhh >__>;;
#1
Posted 31 October 2009 - 09:17 PM
It all started when we had to do a group project in English. No one couldn't pick who they want to be with, so the teacher matched us up with random people. I ended up partnered up with this one guy. He kept on smiling at me so I thought it was okay, but it felt weird when we had to share a book together x__x;; He was getting too close. We presented our project successfully, and once I got home, I found an add from him on facebook. I thought to myself how the heck did he find me so quick after the project (I have English as my last class and I get on the computer right away when I get home lol)? He starts talking to me on facebook on how he thinks my name is sexy and comments on every post I put up with the usual "like" (have to use fb to know what I mean). Then he talks to me about his Mariah Carey and calls one of my fave groups Big Bang "The Korean Jackson 5" -__________- BIG BANG is HIP HOP ! Anyways, the next day, he tries to follow me right after English to make fun of Big Bang and starts singing his Mariah Carey songs in such an obnoxious way. He does random outbursts in public that people just stare at us x___x;; Whenever I turn, I see him staring at me and I get confused like... "Are you going to go up and say hi? o.o" He gets perverted with me and he tries to follow me after school if I'm alone and not with my friends T___T;; He only tries to make real conversations on facebook. Then he starts asking me about Key Club o___o I didn't even know he knew I was in that club =_=;; "Hey... I was wondering... What do you do in Key Club?" which was out of nowhere .__. He even added my best friend back from middle school, and started asking about me. What should I do?
I considered blocking him but what to do when I meet him in school....
I'm not a huge fan of people only wanting to talk to me on the internet instead of face-to-face when we practically see each other almost everyday.
I'm not a huge fan of people only wanting to talk to me on the internet instead of face-to-face when we practically see each other almost everyday.
#2
Posted 31 October 2009 - 09:32 PM
that's scary indeed. i was in a similar situation, too. the guy found out my aim sn cause he was stalking behind me in class. anyways! you should confront him. tell him how you feel like how you're feeling uncomfortable and stuff. don't be afraid of him!!! last time, the guy followed me during break and stopped me in front of the vending machine. he actually grabbed my shoulder. and you know what i did? i yelled out "RAPE" and all the seniors in the quad stared. then i ran off. (: be mean to him! tell him to back off! well only if he still doesn't understand how you feel after you tell him because some stalkers are pretty persistent...and the only way to make them back off is to be mean to them or do something else. i only yelled out rape because my guy friends suggested me to. lol. ayways, good luck to you!
#3
Posted 31 October 2009 - 09:33 PM
Try ignoring him, or say that you have a boyfriend or someone you like. If that doesn't stop him, then you gotta confront him.
#5
Posted 31 October 2009 - 09:44 PM
Comparing Big Bang to Jackson 5 is a huge insult to Jackson 5....
anyways, 0____o; can you tell school authorities?
anyways, 0____o; can you tell school authorities?
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#6
Posted 31 October 2009 - 10:16 PM
QUOTE (muffinx3 @ Nov 1 2009, 12:39 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I don't think you're looking to keep him as a friend or anything, so I would suggest the
"AYE, I think you're creepy. Stop being creepy. Thanks, I appreciate it."
also known as the blunt, straight forward way. :]
"AYE, I think you're creepy. Stop being creepy. Thanks, I appreciate it."
also known as the blunt, straight forward way. :]
Seriously, he's being a creeper, so treat him like one. Don't even worry about his feelings or what he might think, he's already crossed the line to the point that he's given up any possible chance of you being nice to him.
#7
Posted 31 October 2009 - 11:48 PM
If you wanna let him know you're not interested, just ask him he's gay, and that you know of a gay friend who might be interested.
#8
Posted 31 October 2009 - 11:52 PM
He added you by searching for your name when he got home, or near a computer. But his approach is way off, and socially awkward. In his mind he thinks it's ok. I'm not defending him, but he doesn't realize he's coming off stalkerish. Be real with him and tell him what you just told us.
Avy by mangosteen
#9
Posted 01 November 2009 - 03:27 AM
say "i dont think my bf would like u hanging around me..."
then start giving him the cold shoulder
then start giving him the cold shoulder
#11
Posted 02 November 2009 - 08:38 AM
QUOTE (PristineNyte @ Nov 1 2009, 01:16 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Seriously, he's being a creeper, so treat him like one. Don't even worry about his feelings or what he might think, he's already crossed the line to the point that he's given up any possible chance of you being nice to him.
This.
Social norms and other generally accepted polite methods of dealing with people do not apply to creepers.
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