[SoulTears1]

hello,

well my gf told me today that she needs support from me.. her classes are killing her and she feels tired all the time..
and with mid-terms coming up, she told me that she needs me to support her through all that.. but i really have no idea
how to do that.. i think its my only way to make her love me more than i love her ( if u read my last topic) and i have to try my best.. soo can somebody give me some tips? how can i take out all the stress she gets ? and how can i make her feel like she can do it?

[x SaRaNg HaE x]

Just keep cheering her on! Remind her of how smart she is and how she'll be able to pwn those midterms.
If she's studying late at night, bring her some coffee or cookies. Cook her some dinner if she's too tired to.
Just be there for her~

[ex4zngod]

Tell her you'll support no matter what in any way. Let her know she can make it through and end up doing well. Help her do tasks she needs to complete so she has more time for homework and of course the most important tell her you'll wait for her no matter what if she feels bad for not spending time with you and that you'll always love her. Lovey dovey stuff should keep her smiling through this period of time. Good luck.

[Floatii]

i can kinda relate to this situation. LOL
midterms are coming up for me and all and then i just know that i'm doing horrible in my courses. my boyfriend gives me support through this stuff by just being there, you know? when i rant about my horrible day, he gives me a good long hug. when i told him i did bad on a test, he helps me to analyze what i did wrong and give suggestions.

there are lots of things you can do to support your girlfriend!

help her with subjects she's not so good at, study with her, cheer her on when she's staying up to study...etc.
when you know she didn't sleep much the previous night, when you see her the next morning, surprise her with cookies and coffee (if she likes that stuff) or something. it may seem really cheesy but hey, it usually works.

[5.mystline]

Buy her something (jewelry etc), give her a massage or help her out with her assignments/hw if you can.

[Painterlyy]

Make her forget about all the stress. A romantic evening. Keep cheering her on and tell her that you know she can do it.

[lovestruckk]

bring her maybe dinner? so she doesnt have to get up and make some.
this way she can focus on her work longer

and maybe if its possible, help her out?

[donporkuloin]

Positively encourage her. Maybe buy her a card, and put a thoughtful note with it.

[Stolen_waters]

If I were your girlfriend, the gift I would appreciate most is food. 'cause I don't really want to be bothered much when I'm stressing over school work, but food never fails to calm things down.

[des monstres]

Buy her something (jewelry etc), give her a massage or help her out with her assignments/hw if you can.

ehh,.. i don't think it's necessarily to buy her jewerly.
i think a long hug is worth more than a piece of metal in this situation.
just listen to her rants and things like that.
cheer her on.

[meiming8_1]

Just always let her know you're there for her. Be nice to her, and do romantic, thoughtful things for her; the stuff people have mentioned before. And when she's having a bad day, just tell her that you're there for her, no matter what. When she's complaining about something, don't tell her she's in the wrong or start analysing what she could have done better- just listen to her, and let her know you're there for her again and again.

I always want my boyfriend to show me support, so that's what I would want anyway- especially the listening when she's complaining bit. My boyfriend always jumps in and tells me everything I could have done better...but sometimes, you just want someone to listen to you, not fix your problems, you know?

[rachilde]

Help her do what's best for herself. If she sucks at studying, drag her to the library and make her study or help her study by making her flash cards and quizzing her; if she sucks at taking care of herself, make her eat nutritious meals while studying; if she sucks at waking up in the morning for her first class, call her and make her get up; and if she ever feels like giving up, make her realize that giving up is the worst thing she can do.

[damyoungji]

Listen to her when she needs to rant.

If she is too stressed out, take her out for a short break. Even a ten minute break will do to calm her down.

As long as you listen and show signs that you care, she will be grateful for your help (hopefully).

[maharu.]

Giving her encouraging words, helping her out in studying, taking her out somewhere to relieve stress...
Something you can personally do that could...make you feel better as well.

[terrorist]

well keep talking to her.. keep her company

remember never discourage her.. never tell her that she can't do it.

always always encourage her.

[Irony.]

To cut it short, she wants emotional support ^^

[ShadowMax76]

^ i'm not sure how many guys understand what that means. even i don't get it.

[jsp]

Buy her something (jewelry etc)

That one got me.

[sus]

just help her
make things easier for her
bring her foood
do her chores
help her study
be sweet to her so she will b happy bout something
make her feel special!

[A-choo]

lol, basically wuht everyone said above :3

Cheer her on, spend sumtime talkin wif her, listen to her ~

I unno, if i wanted support, i'd probably want them to be there for meh, n juss listen to meh spazz, loll ;P

Sho yuh :3 i phink she needs YOU, more than gifts n stuff o;