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#1 User is offline   bellarose 

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Posted 01 November 2009 - 04:42 PM

When you kiss someone, are you suppose to feel something if you truly like them? I think kissing is just overrated, because I have never felt something special when I kissed guys I've been seeing. (Also doesn't help that I have saliva phobia!)

I don't think I'm emotionless. There are some guys I wish I could date/be with, but things just never work out. So could it just be a matter of being with the wrong person?
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Posted 01 November 2009 - 04:48 PM

It depends on the couple really. I knew a couple who went out for 2 years and kissed for the first time after one year and a half. To some people, kissing isn't necessary in a relationship just because they feel as if they don't need to show physical affection to prove that they're in love. In others, some will feel the need for physical affection so that they 'know' that their s/o still loves them. The rest .. well .. they kiss just for experimentation and just because it's 'fun'.
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Posted 01 November 2009 - 04:57 PM

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Posted 01 November 2009 - 04:58 PM

there has to be electricity! if not then.. =\
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Posted 01 November 2009 - 05:06 PM

QUOTE (bellarose @ Nov 1 2009, 07:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
When you kiss someone, are you suppose to feel something if you truly like them? I think kissing is just overrated, because I have never felt something special when I kissed guys I've been seeing. (Also doesn't help that I have saliva phobia!)

I don't think I'm emotionless. There are some guys I wish I could date/be with, but things just never work out. So could it just be a matter of being with the wrong person?

You answered your own question. It's not that it's over rated, you just haven't experienced anything special yet.
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Posted 01 November 2009 - 05:14 PM

QUOTE (PristineNyte @ Nov 1 2009, 08:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
You answered your own question. It's not that it's over rated, you just haven't experienced anything special yet.

I guess I did answer my own question, but I wanted to know...whether I was alone in not feeling anything when I kissed someone I THOUGHT was special to me.

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Posted 01 November 2009 - 05:14 PM

I LOVE KISSING! I used to think making out was really gross. I think once u find a person that you really like/love, you wouldn't mind what bad habits they have and you wouldn't mind their saliva either. :]
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Posted 01 November 2009 - 05:21 PM

For me, it's not about the kiss itself, it's that second right before I close my eyes when his face is very close and the dazed expression that takes my breath away. So no, it isnt overrated, You just havent experienced it with the right person.
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Posted 01 November 2009 - 05:34 PM

i'm a guy and i enjoy kissing. lol
i think it's in my genes =D
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Posted 01 November 2009 - 06:06 PM

An average person spends 2-8 weeks of their life kissing.
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Posted 01 November 2009 - 06:17 PM

Yes, it can be overrated if you do not do it well, so you are not feeling the impact. If its done correctly you can achieve an o........., isn't that alot of fun!
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Posted 01 November 2009 - 07:52 PM

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There are some guys I wish I could date/be with, but things just never work out. So could it just be a matter of being with the wrong person?


Go with the guys you want to be with, then compare/contrast.
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Posted 01 November 2009 - 08:01 PM

Its not overrated. You just haven't found that someone you enjoy kissing with yet. smile.gif

I love love love kissing my bf. Its fun tongue.gif A little peck here and there when we're walking around together is fun. But I'm not gonna try to make out/eat his face while we're outside, where the whole world can see us. I hate people who do this. dry.gif
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Posted 02 November 2009 - 06:55 AM

i don't think it's overrated. maybe you'll change your mind after you've found someone that you're having a good time when you kiss him.
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Posted 02 November 2009 - 08:34 AM

If you didn't feel anything, then there definitely wasn't any love there. Kissing is not overrated.

I think HUGS ARE SERIOUSLY UNDERRATED, by the way.


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Posted 02 November 2009 - 08:47 AM

QUOTE (dramaprincessxox @ Nov 2 2009, 11:34 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
If you didn't feel anything, then there definitely wasn't any love there. Kissing is not overrated.

I think HUGS ARE SERIOUSLY UNDERRATED, by the way.


I actually love hugs. I thing I like cuddling over kissing. It makes me feel so cozy and safe when someone hugs me right.
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Posted 02 November 2009 - 09:53 AM

QUOTE (bellarose @ Nov 1 2009, 07:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
When you kiss someone, are you suppose to feel something if you truly like them? I think kissing is just overrated, because I have never felt something special when I kissed guys I've been seeing. (Also doesn't help that I have saliva phobia!)

I don't think I'm emotionless. There are some guys I wish I could date/be with, but things just never work out. So could it just be a matter of being with the wrong person?

A proper kiss should make your loins quiver.
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Posted 02 November 2009 - 10:58 AM

QUOTE (PristineNyte @ Nov 1 2009, 05:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
You answered your own question. It's not that it's over rated, you just haven't experienced anything special yet.

agreed. it's not overrated when you're kissing the right person. the feeling can be so wonderful
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Posted 02 November 2009 - 02:12 PM

QUOTE (DreamingSaturn @ Nov 2 2009, 12:53 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
A proper kiss should make your loins quiver.


True that! biggrin.gif:D:D

I used to be like you though. I thought it was pretty gross swapping spit but now it's something that's buried to the back of my mind
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Posted 02 November 2009 - 02:16 PM

nothing's over-rated when you're in love.
the puppy love kind, i mean.
it probably won't feel like lightning every single time, as long as it does sometimes.
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