[almondflavored]

so i was reading up on the topic about holding hands and what it means to people
and it seems like people are saying that holding hands is a sign of " togetherness "
and when a couple wants to show others that they are official
me and this guy , we have feelings for each other and we hold and hands....BUT he's never officially asked me out......
should i assume that i'm NOT his gf?

[Ethriss]

hes probably just too shy to ask you out, but likes you

as has been said, holding hands is like talking without actually speaking, so its also a good way to avoid awkwardness

maybe you should just go ahead and ask him if u guys are official?

[janjan13xx]

don't assume! just ask him.
because some people just hold hands while they have feelings for each other. but they aren't official.

[SEXIElicious]

i hold hands with the guy that i like too but we're not going out yet.
i dont think its official
unless he asked you to be his gf or you asked him.
we hold hands only cause we both like each other and it feels nice

[BubbleFish]

You guys holding hands means that he likes you and all, but it doesn't mean you guys are officially together.

[forgottenmemories]

Never assume anything!! You'll end up in pain if you assumed you're his gf but he still thinks you're his friend. =/ Talk to him about it. He might like you but is too shy to admit it.

[almondflavored]

thanks for all the responses so far.
so how should i casually bring it up without making it awkward ?

so i was reading up on the topic about holding hands and what it means to people
and it seems like people are saying that holding hands is a sign of " togetherness "
and when a couple wants to show others that they are official
me and this guy , we have feelings for each other and we hold and hands....BUT he's never officially asked me out......
should i assume that i'm NOT his gf?

[HaplessChild]

don't assume! just ask him.
because some people just hold hands while they have feelings for each other. but they aren't official.

This.

[almondflavored]

thanks for all the responses so far.
so how should i casually bring it up without making it awkward ?

[HaplessChild]

Asking straight forward would be the least awkward way.

[peppermintsugar]

The first thing I did with the guy before my boyfriend was hold hands. We held hands for like, nine hours straight in a car ride to Atlanta, Georgia.
Three months later I find out he's just playing me anyways and enjoys the sex.
So, I wouldn't assume that holding hands actually means anything substantial, lol.

[donporkuloin]

don't assume! just ask him.
because some people just hold hands while they have feelings for each other. but they aren't official.

[revontulet]

Like everyone said, ask him. Some people considering holding hands an intimate gesture so there's a good chance that he's really into you. Or he might be straight up playing you.

[sus]

ur not official until u both say it

people hold hands with each other all the time
doesnt mean ur together officially

[MR. LEE'S]

well, maybe it's because he's afraid to say it out?

[bonjour tristesse.]

Try asking him yourself and you'll see.