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#1 User is offline   vietnamazin92 

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Posted 03 November 2009 - 06:36 PM

is it stragne that i have never dated anyone and im senior in highschool
my friend make fun about it but does it really matter?
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Posted 03 November 2009 - 06:39 PM

QUOTE (vietnamazin92 @ Nov 3 2009, 06:36 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
is it stragne that i have never dated anyone and im senior in highschool
my friend make fun about it but does it really matter?


Good. You don't have to experience a broken heart then. Keep your priority on school then once you're done you can go out and play.
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Posted 03 November 2009 - 06:46 PM

QUOTE (vietnamazin92 @ Nov 4 2009, 02:36 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
is it stragne that i have never dated anyone and im senior in highschool
my friend make fun about it but does it really matter?


ummm why are you so concerned about it?
I personally think... people who cares about how other people see them are just... not mature enough?
Be who you are... no point wearing stupid masks... just fact that you are immature.

On a side note, neither have i and i am 2nd year university. Got a problem w/ that?
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Posted 03 November 2009 - 06:56 PM

QUOTE (Mr. Chan @ Nov 3 2009, 06:39 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Good. You don't have to experience a broken heart then. Keep your priority on school then once you're done you can go out and play.


my mother says that...

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anyways it isn't important
i didn't date till senior year and it didn't last very long at all
don't sweat it, high school romance ain't worth the time
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Posted 03 November 2009 - 07:01 PM

No, it's not weird. I know a bunch of people who started dating in college.
Majority of high school relationships don't last anyways.
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Posted 03 November 2009 - 08:22 PM

i'm a senior and i have never had a boyfriend. nor do i ever want one, because i know that i'm not the nicest person out there. so, don't worry, many of my friends never had a boyfriend. and right now you don't want stupid drama to mess up your life, do you? because my REALLY close friend has a bf and she is totally stressing out about him. ):
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Posted 04 November 2009 - 01:00 AM

Hey, don't worry about it. Even though it is a pretty nice experience, dating isn't as important as people make it out to be or as important as they are portrayed on TV. Believe me, at this point, you're not missing out on much. I would say, "focus on your studies," but the most important thing for a person your age is the process of answering "Who am I?" Adolescence is a very turbulent period of a person's life, you have to build a consistent identity of your self-perceptions and interactions with others. According to Erik Erikson, people who fail to develop a sense of identity suffer from an uncertainty about who they are and where they are going.
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Posted 04 November 2009 - 01:57 AM

No it's not strange at all. Most high school relationships don't work out anyways. But don't worry about it, everything will change for you in college. No cliques, no immature kids, and you'll be with people similar to you. Not to mention you'll be older and have a better sense of who you are oh and freedom haha. But if you're that bent on dating try going out to more events that interest you.

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Posted 04 November 2009 - 03:00 AM

i didn't date until my second year of university.
it's not strange. it's your own life, you can do what you want, when you want.
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Post icon  Posted 04 November 2009 - 05:17 AM

No there nothing wrong with it becuz I been single for 17 yr I don't have deal with boy clinging on me or drama so it stress free in that matter
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Posted 04 November 2009 - 07:51 AM

thanks yall i feel alittle better cause where im from people know me and they think its alittle strange but heck
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Posted 04 November 2009 - 07:56 AM

No. Its not strange at all. I never dated anyone until I was in my second year of uiversity. People do things at different pace. Tell your friends to shut up when they tease you about it.
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Posted 04 November 2009 - 08:25 AM

I know a girl who is doing her PhD (just started) and hasn't dated.

Don't stress too much, dating isn't as easy as it seems, yes it looks to be good, but HS romances rarely last... there ARE, but it isn't majority. Just enjoy life, and I am sure, when time comes, you will start dating. There is no need to start early anyway, save heart ache, as HS-ers are not all that mature when they date.... (at times)
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Posted 04 November 2009 - 11:45 AM

Why should you care what other people think??

Do things for yourself ~ not your friends, who cares right!!

I didnt start dating til I was 16 almost 17 ~ which is college in UK ... so I was out of graduation... prob be your equivlent to freshman year in college for you... so 18 almost 19?? O_O aaannnyyyywaaay

shouldnt matter ~ if it is starting to effect you then you do something about it, if not then leave it smile.gif
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Posted 04 November 2009 - 12:22 PM

I'm expanding on my previous post. Worry about the kind of person you aim to become in your life for now, focus your energy on making it happen. I promise you, you WILL find an identity for yourself, and you WILL have plenty of confidence because of it. And it is those things that will attract people to you.
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Posted 04 November 2009 - 12:26 PM

I wasn't allowed to date or so that was what my parents told me in high school. By college time they were like.. "why don't you have a boyfriend?! You're not ugly or anything!" Back to my point, I didn't date until 3rd year of university. So really, you have nothing to worry about! When the right guy comes, you'll know. Don't rush it.
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Posted 04 November 2009 - 01:16 PM

i find it normal o-o;

i mean, yooh probably juss haven't found sumone yooh'd like to go out wif or sumfin.

~____~ lol, sum of mah fwends in high skool still haven't went out wif anyone yet, n it's pwetty normal.

.___. if they say that yooh're weird or sumfin. they're juss losers *cough cough* D:

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Posted 04 November 2009 - 01:19 PM

I think it's pretty normal, you should be focusing on SATs and getting into a good college!
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Posted 04 November 2009 - 02:04 PM

QUOTE (Mr. Chan @ Nov 3 2009, 08:39 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Good. You don't have to experience a broken heart then. Keep your priority on school then once you're done you can go out and play.

I can't help but agree with this.

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Posted 04 November 2009 - 03:39 PM

Don't think I'll ever be in love either. Dating--okay.
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