[BBL0V3x33]

When you have a bf or gf, how do you know that their still in to their ex? They may say, i don't pay her no mind and i don't care but yet they still remember the dates of when they got together and stuff like that. so how do you know?

[Every~Verse]

How I knew was whenever the topic of her came up, He always got mad, for no reason at all.
Now their back together.

[bonjour tristesse.]

He either ignores questions about her or he always talks about her. As for girls .. sometimes it's easy to tell. I mean, they look at their ex with that dreamy look on their faces and that they can't seem to focus on you.

[natt-y]

There are a lot of signs, but usually you can just tell..
Like if they start comparing you to their ex a lot (in a negative way)

Or if they start ranting about their ex flirting/getting together with someone else

Or if they hang out with their ex maybe a LITTLE too much- like you can't automatically assume they're still into their ex if they chill once or twice, but if you get blown off, or if they're meeting up multiple times a week - then there's something to think about

There can be blurry lines, like some people say that they're just "really good friends with their ex"- but you can usually tell.. between friends and interest.

[x SaRaNg HaE x]

1. When they still call/text each other.
2. The tone of his voice when she gets brought up.

And the most obvious sign:
3. When he still worries about her well being.

[peppermintsugar]

Sometimes a good sign is if you have something negative to say about her, and he always tries to back her up.
A lot of other signs have already been covered by other posters.

[MrPower]

If he/she cares at all about their ex.
This could be represented in the form of anger/resentment, nostalgia, sadness, etc.

Any of these can spell out danger for the future of your relationship, so be wary.

If they feel no particular emotions towards their exs, then you're good to go. Well, at least that's how it worked out for me.

[MR. LEE'S]

when he's acting strange? or maybe when- well you know, strange strange.

[jaeka]

when you make a post about it on soompi.

[ltnd.]

How I knew was whenever the topic of her came up, He always got mad, for no reason at all.
Now their back together.

Yeah..I'm going through this RIGHT NOW.
My bf gets SUPER defensive when I bring her up. I've asked him to stop talking to her because it really does hurt me (i know some people are gonna be like "yeah but he's with you") But what Every Verse said..they got back together..
For me, I'm not worried about that..I don't know why..it just hurts when he talks to her..yet he tells me he's not going to stop..

when you make a post about it on soompi.

WORD. I like your answer. lolol

[bonjour tristesse.]

when you make a post about it on soompi.

LOLLOLLOL. nice.

[fredinsac]

When you catch him IN his ex.

[Nine]

When they constantly keep reminding/talking about what he/she did when they dated.

when you make a post about it on soompi.

I lol'd.

[mentholatum132]

When you catch him IN his ex.

LOLOLOL something i never want to encounter with my bf T_T

[Emerald Snow]

1. When they still call/text each other.
2. The tone of his voice when she gets brought up.

And the most obvious sign:
3. When he still worries about her well being.

I don't know about the last one...

I mean, I still care and worry for my ex, but I know that I'm definitely not into him anymore. There's nothing wrong with worrying and caring for exes if you guys stay friends.

[sus]

when he mentions her
or goes out with her
u just know.. if they dont give their full attention to u

[taebins_luver]

when he's at her house 1/2/3/4 in the morning and you're alone...

[latina]

when you make a post about it on soompi.

When you catch him IN his ex.

funny answers but they're true

[dayiimits]

I only had a relationship before... and I knew he was still in to his ex because he kept on talking about her.
I have this habit of appearing offline on MSN, so there I found out whenever he thinks I'm 'offline' he changes his nick and personal message about that girl O_O It was so obvious.

[woei]

when they still contact with each other...fml