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#1 User is offline   makelovenoises 

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Posted 04 November 2009 - 10:06 PM

I find it inconsiderate and rude for couples to cuddle and kiss (holding hands & pecks are fine) around singles. It's like .. Get a room please. It makes me want to leave the area--boring.

I prefer the times where couples wouldn't keep to themselves so much.

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My friend and her boyfriend came to my house for a bit. I was talking to them when she suddenly leaned in and frenched him for a minute or so. There was this awkward silence in the room and I was just sitting there with my laptop trying to find something to do.

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QUOTE (PristineNyte @ Nov 4 2009, 10:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I don't see anything wrong with holding hands and peck kissing in front of other people. I'm not going to stop showing my boyfriend minimal affection just because you're single.


Holding hands and pecks are fine, I'm fine with that. But when they are all lovely dovey (cuddly, frenching) on each other when theres anotehr person in the room, that makes thigns awkward
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#2 User is offline   JinEnjuce 

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Posted 04 November 2009 - 10:08 PM

Yeah, it's pretty obnoxious.

DAMN YOU JOHN LEGEND

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Posted 04 November 2009 - 10:09 PM

I don't see anything wrong with holding hands and peck kissing in front of other people. I'm not going to stop showing my boyfriend minimal affection just because you're single.
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Posted 04 November 2009 - 10:10 PM

I've seen some pretty bad PDAs too...makes me cringe when I walk by couples feeling each other up in the halls.
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Posted 04 November 2009 - 10:15 PM

QUOTE (PristineNyte @ Nov 4 2009, 10:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I don't see anything wrong with holding hands and peck kissing in front of other people. I'm not going to stop showing my boyfriend minimal affection just because you're single.


Holding hands and pecks are fine, I'm fine with that. But when they are all lovely dovey (cuddly, frenching) on each other when theres anotehr person in the room, that makes thigns awkward
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Posted 04 November 2009 - 10:15 PM

okay i agree with this, i feel extremely awkward when it happens too. i think out of respect i wouldn't molest my gf in front of others. it's just impolite, single or not. I just don't like doing that kind of pda (which to us guys leans more toward meaning personal digital assistants... but i guess she could be that too).

but loveetrish i voluntarily volunteer to keep you company while your friends are making out.
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Posted 04 November 2009 - 10:16 PM

QUOTE (PristineNyte @ Nov 4 2009, 10:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I don't see anything wrong with holding hands and peck kissing in front of other people. I'm not going to stop showing my boyfriend minimal affection just because you're single.

+1

yes yes frenching your bf in front of anyone shouldn't be okay whether those people are single or not
what's your opinion on love taps? lol playful slap on the butt ... not groping ... u kno?
i think its cute and don't mind love taps, holding hands and a quick peck hello and good bye
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Posted 04 November 2009 - 11:04 PM

Some people are a bit over the top or in other words, shameless.

but... there isn't much we can do about it. Just deal with it. lol
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Posted 04 November 2009 - 11:05 PM

Sounds like the beginning of a porno I watched last night.
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Posted 04 November 2009 - 11:14 PM

QUOTE (JinEnjuce @ Nov 5 2009, 04:08 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Yeah, it's pretty obnoxious.

DAMN YOU JOHN LEGEND


PDAAA WE JUST DON'T CAREEEEEE LOL AHAHAHAA.

I'm friends with this couple that PDAs A LOT. A lot of people who are friends with them are uncomfortable with them whenever they're around them because they make out all the time. It's really awkward when you're talking to someone, and then they suddenly start making out with their s/o from out of nowhere. Yes, pecks, hugs, and holding hands are cute, but not something over the limit like making out in front of your friends and being all over each other in public. That should be done in private.
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Posted 04 November 2009 - 11:19 PM


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Posted 05 November 2009 - 12:08 AM

if i'm with my boyfriend and just ONE other person who's single, then yeah... we won't be so rude as to start making out or having our own little world
but if i'm with my bf and just ONE other person, who is in a relationship or just more than 1 person, I'll be a bit more touchy, b/c it's my way of letting them know that I wouldn't mind them doing that either

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Posted 05 November 2009 - 12:15 AM

i like pdaing with my boyfriend.
we'll hug, hold hands, kiss.
put my hand in his butt pocket.
or slap his butt every so often.. lols.

but we won't.. french or go overboard.
pda to some extent is okay.
as long as there's no dry humping involved.


and yeah. it's awkward if it's just you and this couple.
it's bad enough you feel like the third wheel..
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#14 User is offline   agnes. 

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Posted 05 November 2009 - 12:22 AM

i think cuddling is fine.
but yeah, making out and kissing like hell is annoying and should be done in private.

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Posted 05 November 2009 - 12:30 AM

Holding hands, cuddling, pecks and hugs are fine, I used to do it with my ex around our friends, but I feel extremely uncomfortable if my friends are making out with their boyfriends right next to me or just being really touchy with each other. I guess it would be fine if we're a big group of people out partying somewhere but if not then I feel annoyed at how couples can just do that openly in front of everybody and turn the atmosphere awkward with their make-out fest. I just don't want to be around couples that do overboard of PDA, rather than ME having to leave shouldn't it be the two of you going to the bathroom or somewhere private, lol. dry.gif Why go out to meet people if you're gonna be in your own little world anyway?

This is why I never hang out with couples by myself, I always make sure I have 2 or 3 other friends with me.
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Posted 05 November 2009 - 12:53 AM

Kisses, holding hands and cuddles I can put up with, but the moment things start going past first base then it's just annoying... get a room!
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Posted 05 November 2009 - 03:02 AM

Oh I knowww, esp. when you're in a group of people and they start PDA-ing all over lol. Holding hands, a peck on the lips/cheeks is fine, but when you start making out and getting all over each other, then it's really just kind of gross.
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Posted 05 November 2009 - 05:39 AM

I don't understand what's wrong with cuddling. Cuddling in itself doesn't involve anything inappropriate like groping. mellow.gif

I can understand some people not liking to see extreme PDA, but some people are just plain bitter about it. The MAJORITY of couples I see are not making out in the middle of a public place.
Even so, once in Target I pecked my boyfriend on the lips and some old hag was like "GET A ROOM." I was like... no? because this does not require a room?
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Posted 05 November 2009 - 06:08 AM

Yes to Cuddling and pecking.

No to frenching and groping.
It's um, too explicit/sensual for public.
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Posted 05 November 2009 - 10:21 AM

it's not only awkward for singles, it's akward for people with boyfriends\girlfriends too.
i guess it's just uncomfortable to watch people pda-ing o_o
makes you feel like you're interrupting xD
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