[princess257]

I'm already 17 and I have got NO experience of Love. I don't think that I'm so ugly or fat or something. But I don't seem to be grabbing the attention of any guys.
All my friends tell me that I'm really cute and good hearted.
Any suggestions? What can i do become more noticeable?
No freaky answers please.
Anyone with same problem as mine?

[[K]Jae]

Don't worry about it your still young. You got many years ahead and college would break the ice as your gonna meet many girls there.

[JinEnjuce]

As I've said before in a similar thread, the most important thing you can do at this point in your life is find a sense of who you are, and what you want to do in life. What you shape to be your identity will give you the direction and confidence you need in the coming years.

Believe me, you're not going to experience much of a meaningful relationship at your age, with how people are developing.

[thisismyv]

You just haven't crossed paths with your Prince Charming yet. Or maybe you did, but you were so caught up in your thoughts that you just didn't notice. You can't force love to spring up on you, so don't worry so much and just go with the flow.

[mintcracker]

confidence is really important. And doing ur own thing- ie not being fake.

But hey, alotta guys (asns esp) like cutesy, squeal y, delicate, submissive asian girls. lol, but don't be like that.

[twix0rz]

I am 19 and in the same situation. The only guys that asked me out were weird guys that i had no interest in. haha. Don't worry, wait until college, maybe then you can find the right guy. I think you should just be yourself and if a guy likes you, then you know he likes you for you. Sounds corny but that is what i think.

If you really want to be more noticeable to guys...i guess you need to hang out with more guys or talk to them. I have no clue. XD

[5.mystline]

Maybe it's your fashion sense?

[x ciel]

Maybe instead of being more "attractive" to guys (since attractive is really a very subjective term depending on the guy in question) you should make yourself more distinct from other girls. And I think ability to hold a conversation is pretty important, like if a guy isn't able to hold a decent conversation I'd totally find it a turn off. :X Don't be one of those girls who's just like "Hey, what's up, how's your day?" and that's the end of the conversation. Or if you're in a group, don't just sit there quietly and go along with what everyone else says, haha. Get out there and be yourself! ( And I totally agree with mintcracker, lol)

I think cute and good hearted to us girls doesn't necessarily mean that the guys think so as well, lol. From what I've seen with my guy friends, girls and guys have VERY different opinions on what pretty is, who is girlfriend material, and stuff like that. I have a friend who is extremely good-natured, and IMO would make perfect gf/wife material, but she doesn't seem to grab the attention of guys. [shrugs]

[DeeIsRadicalYeah]

confidence. and being your natural self should do it. comfortability is important.

[calculator]

Confidence does it for you. I think it's really not about putting flour all over your face.

[Knee]

Pro tip: No matter how much you're doing it already, you should smile more!

[Gofishus]

Lol @ All the 'confidence' replies. No, the real answer is "wear a miniskirt and high heels". Take it from a guy, it works.

[xxmeow]

like many of the posters say, confidence is number 1.
do not try to change yourself for someone.
never be afraid to voice out your opinion and never let other people push you down.
smile more and try to make your conversation with guys more interesting.
you can talk to most guys about anything that's not girly.
and you have to make them feel comfortable around you.
when they're comfortable, they'll eventually hang around you more.
a lot of my guy friends come up to me to get a girl's opinion about love. o_o

gofishus:
lol at your suggestion.
i dont think she meant attractive in that way. xD

[kayee1]

17 is really really young....
dont worry !

[Laxntiga]

From a guy:

You have it or you don't.

Depending on how large you are, you could always lose a few lbs.
Wear make up
Wear a bit more revealing clothes - or clothes that accent your figure.
Smile more often
Hang out with prettier girls
Actually go out to places where guys are.

Guys are visual creatures.

[Mannosuke]

Maybe you're just paying too much attention to the hot, popular studs instead of looking at the other 90% of men that are less outgoing, don't stand out as much, and may be shy.

I'm curious how you would justify that you don't catch "any" guys' attention. Is it because they don't approach you?

[fredinsac]

The obvious answer is to get breast implants.

[koreanballads]

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Understanding and applying this formula is the key to your success.

[INFP]

Just don't try too hard.

Be yourself and someone will show up in your life who will appreciate you for who you are. You just haven't met him yet. ^.^

Good luck!!!

[yangri]

lol @ koreanballads

SUre confidence is one thing.. have you ever tried talking to any one? If you're not pretty don't expect guys to notice you from out of no where. =T