[1nspiration]

Okay so here's the story:

Not sure if anyone can relate but I'm sure someone can...haha. Has anyone every read up on someone famous and find yourself totally attracted to that person? Like, yeah the looks drove you to like that person, but at you read and watched videos, you find yourself in love? Don't get me wrong, I'm not really in love with "him" but instead in love with how I portray him in my head. (I think that makes sense...) Well, anyways I was lying in bed and thinking to myself.

"Man, I'm thinking about this person like crazy and his smile can make me in such a better mood... Just thinking about his smile and makes me so much more happier. ... But it doesn't matter anyways because as much as I think about him, he doesn't even know I exist." T-T *Broken heart*

So I was wondering, if anyone has ever felt like this (not just to someone famous, but can be anyone), and what did you do to change that? What would you do to get this person to realize your existence?

[Laxntiga]

Sound's like you're wasting your time.

What's the point of thinking about him if he doesn't even know you exist? You want this one way relationship ... well technically not a even a relationship lol, he doesn't even know you.

Why don't you do something about it? The sheer anxiety and curiousty would have motivated me to go up and talk to the other person at least.

[Mannosuke]

Instead of lying there thinking about what COULD happen, how about just go up to him and make yourself known?

[fredinsac]

Okay so here's the story:

Not sure if anyone can relate but I'm sure someone can...haha. Has anyone every read up on someone famous and find yourself totally attracted to that person? Like, yeah the looks drove you to like that person, but at you read and watched videos, you find yourself in love? Don't get me wrong, I'm not really in love with "him" but instead in love with how I portray him in my head. (I think that makes sense...) Well, anyways I was lying in bed and thinking to myself.

"Man, I'm thinking about this person like crazy and his smile can make me in such a better mood... Just thinking about his smile and makes me so much more happier. ... But it doesn't matter anyways because as much as I think about him, he doesn't even know I exist." T-T *Broken heart*

So I was wondering, if anyone has ever felt like this (not just to someone famous, but can be anyone), and what did you do to change that? What would you do to get this person to realize your existence?

WTF is this crap? Really? If you are a soompi forum member it's a given that you are a fan girl/boy or were a fan girl/boy at some point and time. Fricken ridiculous.

Sound's like you're wasting your time.

What's the point of thinking about him if he doesn't even know you exist? You want this one way relationship ... well technically not a even a relationship lol, he doesn't even know you.

Why don't you do something about it? The sheer anxiety and curiousty would have motivated me to go up and talk to the other person at least.

Re-read the part where she talks about him being famous. She's just a fan girl. So lame. I thought I was gonna deal with some real life sh*t.

Instead of lying there thinking about what COULD happen, how about just go up to him and make yourself known?

Re-read her post. She's just a fan girl.

[Mannosuke]

Re-read her post. She's just a fan girl.

Hardcore fans would do anything to even get to see their idols in person, and she sounds like a hardcore fan to me.

[rice_rice]

I'm pretty sure it's normal.
many people like famous celebrities and these celebs most definitely don't know they exist
but if its a real person you're talking about e.g. from school, go talk to him/her.

[Mr. Chan]

Post pictures of yourself so we can determine the situation.

[peppermintsugar]

Yeah, I thought I was totally in love with Gackt, too.
Then I turned 12 and grew out of it.

[bhaby gurl]

well things will change after time goes by so i think its okay

just like me i used to like some singers but then as time goes by

and i got bored at them i would just forget about them(hehe...)

[Nana544]

So I was wondering, if anyone has ever felt like this (not just to someone famous, but can be anyone), and what did you do to change that? What would you do to get this person to realize your existence?

I would STOP daydreaming about that person who doesn't even know that I exist. Or, I would gather all my guts and go tell that person that I'm insanely in love with them endlessly.

[Map_The_Soul]

And I thought this was going to be something serious with a person irl...from the sound of things, waste of my time reading and replying to this..lawl... I'm betting you're barely even old enough to know what "love" is..It's a phase, it'll go away...just stop daydreaming about him/her/it...and try to move on.

[kcn_]

Post pictures of yourself so we can determine the situation.

your reply to everything ...

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yes i can relate to you, his name is PARK JAEBEOM
but of course my love is purely that of a fan girl

[Mr. Chan]

your reply to everything ...

Whoa there, I'm thinking about you all the time, also.

[MR. LEE'S]

^ LOL.

well, sometimes it did happen to me too. in my case, i didn't try to make a change for myself by wanting him to know my existence. i will just- you know keep on going with my crush but in a way that will decrease my feeling towards him or maybe find a new crush. haha. that's what i do since i don't really like to waste my time in guys- and for now i am officially not an admirer to anyone, except taecyeon. it would be better right? obviously ok taecyeon doesn't know me and i'm not sad of it.

[ElectroHime]

haha sounds like typical stranger crush or fangirl.


IS IT YAMAP? hahah have you been watching too many YAMAP vids? ;D (btw Im a P fan )
*cute Nobuta wo Produce YamaP & Maki icon btw.

If you're a fangirl, "in-love" with a celebrity, normal.
you dont actually have to DO ANYTHING to make it go away/change how you feel etc.
Go ahead and admire and like him even if you can never reach him.
That's what a fangirl is .

If it's someone famous, dont bother trying to somehow do crazy tings to get that person's attention.
Unless somehow , you're destined to meet that guy sometime in the future , fall in love with each other etc. , dont do anything crazy to make him recognize your existence XDD

If it's a regular person...obvious answer? GO BE HIS FRIEND.

[x SaRaNg HaE x]

I pray you're not another JaeJoong teenybopper.

[iangel]

Not sure if anyone can relate but I'm sure someone can

LOL

it's ok, keep dreaming about him, then one day you will grow out of it. I thought I was going to be single forever when I heard Hyde got married. ...yea.... good times.

[Nine]

Fangirl moment, nothing wrong with that.

[1nspiration]

Sound's like you're wasting your time.

What's the point of thinking about him if he doesn't even know you exist? You want this one way relationship ... well technically not a even a relationship lol, he doesn't even know you.

Why don't you do something about it? The sheer anxiety and curiousty would have motivated me to go up and talk to the other person at least.

haha, thanks for your comment. If there was someone who you didn't know say, it was a "love at first sight" kinda of thing, and every time you saw that person... wouldn't you want to make a great impression on that person? So like, what kind of impression would you go for?

Instead of lying there thinking about what COULD happen, how about just go up to him and make yourself known?

hehe, I like how you phased this. ^^ What would you do to make a good first impression?

WTF is this crap? Really? If you are a soompi forum member it's a given that you are a fan girl/boy or were a fan girl/boy at some point and time. Fricken ridiculous.


Re-read the part where she talks about him being famous. She's just a fan girl. So lame. I thought I was gonna deal with some real life sh*t.


Re-read her post. She's just a fan girl.

Wahhh, you make fangirls sound so bad. ><;; But I guess it's your opinion so alrighty. ^^ I know I'm a fangirl, but I respect his privacy. d=

Anyways, I meant for this to be applied to real life. I'm sorry if my example was a poor choice. T-T

Hardcore fans would do anything to even get to see their idols in person, and she sounds like a hardcore fan to me.

LOL. Yes, indeed most of my friends will call me hardcore. d= Honestly, I wouldn't do anything crazy to get his attention but at the same time... You never know what you will do in the heat of things. hehe. d=

Thanks for your post.

I'm pretty sure it's normal.
many people like famous celebrities and these celebs most definitely don't know they exist
but if its a real person you're talking about e.g. from school, go talk to him/her.

Isn't it... perplexing though? (For lack of better word...) Being a newbie star and then something bigger later in life... Never knowing how much someone will be thinking of you... haha. Even though it's just fans, you always have someone cheering for you to succeed. ^^

Post pictures of yourself so we can determine the situation.

LOL!!! How will that determine this? haha. I'm anonymous since I have some real life friends on here...

Yeah, I thought I was totally in love with Gackt, too.
Then I turned 12 and grew out of it.

hehe, Gackt is so beautiful! hehe, I like how you said, "Then I turned 12 and grew out of it." haha, funny thing is even though I am 22, I still find myself gushing at certain stars... haha. I'll admit, although I am an adult, I can still squeal like a teeny bopper. haha. d=

well things will change after time goes by so i think its okay

just like me i used to like some singers but then as time goes by

and i got bored at them i would just forget about them(hehe...)

haha, sadly that is soo trueeee. Especially when studying is "suppose" to be a higher priority. hehe.

I would STOP daydreaming about that person who doesn't even know that I exist. Or, I would gather all my guts and go tell that person that I'm insanely in love with them endlessly.

What's the ... most you would do to get someone to notice you? Well, not really notice you, but to get a good impression...?

And I thought this was going to be something serious with a person irl...from the sound of things, waste of my time reading and replying to this..lawl... I'm betting you're barely even old enough to know what "love" is..It's a phase, it'll go away...just stop daydreaming about him/her/it...and try to move on.

hehe, sorry if this didn't seem to apply to real life. My intention was to hear cute stories of first impressions and what not. My apologies for a poor choice of example. T-T

&&Although I can't say I've experience the "love" that portrayed in movies... or what our parents may have experienced, but I have fell in love. I do know the meaning of love. ^^

[1nspiration]

your reply to everything ...

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yes i can relate to you, his name is PARK JAEBEOM
but of course my love is purely that of a fan girl

LOL. <3fangirl. hehe. What would you do if you got a chance to meet him? Do you think it's really crazy to try to get him to know you exist?

^ LOL.

well, sometimes it did happen to me too. in my case, i didn't try to make a change for myself by wanting him to know my existence. i will just- you know keep on going with my crush but in a way that will decrease my feeling towards him or maybe find a new crush. haha. that's what i do since i don't really like to waste my time in guys- and for now i am officially not an admirer to anyone, except taecyeon. it would be better right? obviously ok taecyeon doesn't know me and i'm not sad of it.

I feel ya! I just got out of a relationship and I'm pretty content with being single for now. My fangirl crush is all the satisfy me for the time being. Haha. At least until classes are done... ><;;

haha sounds like typical stranger crush or fangirl.


IS IT YAMAP? hahah have you been watching too many YAMAP vids? ;D (btw Im a P fan )
*cute Nobuta wo Produce YamaP & Maki icon btw.

If you're a fangirl, "in-love" with a celebrity, normal.
you dont actually have to DO ANYTHING to make it go away/change how you feel etc.
Go ahead and admire and like him even if you can never reach him.
That's what a fangirl is .

If it's someone famous, dont bother trying to somehow do crazy tings to get that person's attention.
Unless somehow , you're destined to meet that guy sometime in the future , fall in love with each other etc. , dont do anything crazy to make him recognize your existence XDD

If it's a regular person...obvious answer? GO BE HIS FRIEND.

hehe, thank you! I forget where I got this icon but I love it!!
And yes, I am a Yamapi fangirl too. hehe, but at the moment I'm currently crushing on someone else. lol. d=
I hope Yamapi isn't jealous. (They are actually look-a-likes...)

The thing about being friends, is that... guys tend to not change that status. Friends usually stay friends... T-T

I pray you're not another JaeJoong teenybopper.

LOL!!! No I am not. d= I'm actually not a teenybopper neither. haha. d=

LOL

it's ok, keep dreaming about him, then one day you will grow out of it. I thought I was going to be single forever when I heard Hyde got married. ...yea.... good times.

LOL. Married = </3 I don't want to think of that!! LOL, I'm just kidding. hehe

Fangirl moment, nothing wrong with that.

hehe, yeshhh, someone who doesn't think being a fangirl is bad. Thank you! <3