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Have you ever had an imaginary boyfriend/girlfriend? Or thought of having one?

#1 User is offline   pinkslippers 

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Posted 05 November 2009 - 09:57 AM

This idea just struck me while I was posting some reply a few minutes ago. (whut is randomness)

And I'm wondering how it feels like? To have an imaginary lover.
I mean, at the start, during "the relationship" and at the end.

If you've ever had an imaginary boyfriend (or girlfriend), how was it?
How does it feel to have one?
And how far have you gone with your imagination? (e.g. did you give him/her a name? etc?)
Did you base him/her on your crushes/object of infatuation recently?
And how long do you spend your time imagining him/her? (daily? xD)

I was actually thinking of having a diary to write on about my future (soon!) imaginary boyfriend. hahaha. (what is random hobby) Since I never got to have one yet, I just can't help but wonder, how is it to have one?

I know this is a random topic, but the idea just captured my interest. hahaha. biggrin.gif


P.S. if there's already an existing thread with this topic, i didn't know, so you can just delete this one. I wont bite. ^^

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Posted 05 November 2009 - 10:09 AM

Its quite a normal thing for human beings but I am just generalizing.

I dream of the perfect woman but the world does not work that way. I sometimes dream about how she acts, how she dresses, etc. I wished the world would work that way but it doesn't. All I can do is dream until I actually do find a S/O.

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Posted 05 November 2009 - 03:16 PM

QUOTE (pinkslippers @ Nov 5 2009, 12:57 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
This idea just struck me while I was posting some reply a few minutes ago. (whut is randomness)

And I'm wondering how it feels like? To have an imaginary lover.
I mean, at the start, during "the relationship" and at the end.

If you've ever had an imaginary boyfriend (or girlfriend), how was it?
How does it feel to have one?
And how far have you gone with your imagination? (e.g. did you give him/her a name? etc?)
Did you base him/her on your crushes/object of infatuation recently?
And how long do you spend your time imagining him/her? (daily? xD)

I was actually thinking of having a diary to write on about my future (soon!) imaginary boyfriend. hahaha. (what is random hobby) Since I never got to have one yet, I just can't help but wonder, how is it to have one?

I know this is a random topic, but the idea just captured my interest. hahaha. biggrin.gif


P.S. if there's already an existing thread with this topic, i didn't know, so you can just delete this one. I wont bite. ^^


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Posted 05 November 2009 - 03:26 PM

^ my response exactly

... by imaginary do you mean day dreaming about your ideal bf
or do you mean actually having a relationship with a figment of your imagination ....
cause the latter is a bit ...
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Posted 05 November 2009 - 03:27 PM

QUOTE (kcn_ @ Nov 5 2009, 03:26 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
... by imaginary do you mean day dreaming about your ideal bf


No need to dream about it dear. I'm right here.
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Posted 05 November 2009 - 03:30 PM

First, I was like:
=)

Then I was like:
=|

And by the end, I lost all hope:
o_o
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Posted 05 November 2009 - 03:33 PM


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Posted 05 November 2009 - 03:40 PM

o.o; why would you want to do that? lol.
I remember back in middle school, some people would make up imaginary boyfriends
Even making fake email accounts and stuff.. it was kind of sad.
And for some reason, the guy's name was always Nick.
It was just soo obvious they didn't exist..
I don't know what people are thinking when they do that.
Being single isn't so bad XD

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Posted 05 November 2009 - 03:42 PM

QUOTE (kcn_ @ Nov 6 2009, 12:26 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
^ my response exactly

... by imaginary do you mean day dreaming about your ideal bf
or do you mean actually having a relationship with a figment of your imagination ....
cause the latter is a bit ...


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Posted 05 November 2009 - 03:45 PM

HAHAHAHA. do i have a story for you.

i was on the bart (it's like a train) on my way home and this guy comes and sits near me and asks me for the date. and i thought that was weird but i answered anyways and he kept on trying to make small talk. i could sense he was hitting on me. i wasn't interested. so i whip out my phone and pretended i was talking on the phone with a friend. when i got off the bart, i have to take a bus home. turns out he needs to go on the same bus cause we're from the same area. so i whip out my phone again and pretended to talk to my "boyfriend" Daniel. LOL. i tried to sound all lovey dovey like i miss you and stuff, have you eaten, so that this guy hears that i have a "boyfriend" so that he should back off. i was pretty specific in this conversation with my imaginary boyfriend i kid you not. so the story is that he's on his lunch break from work, eating a ham sandwich, and will be coming over to my house later that night cause i was home for the weekend to have dinner with my family and play games with my younger brother.

so YES. i've had an imaginary boyfriend, but within a span of like 30 minutes to avoid this guy that was hitting on me.
keep on wishing and dreaming.
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Posted 05 November 2009 - 04:15 PM

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I never had an 'imaginary' one... which.. I would actually air kiss and such... but I do day dream about the perfect guy like every girl does...


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Posted 05 November 2009 - 04:29 PM

QUOTE (thua @ Nov 5 2009, 06:30 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
First, I was like:
=)

Then I was like:
=|

And by the end, I lost all hope:
o_o

I think this is my favorite reply, hahahaha.
This thread is strange, but I guess an imaginary lover can't lie and treat you poorly, right?
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Posted 05 November 2009 - 04:43 PM



I imagine what my perfect boyfriend would be like, but I don't act out actually being WITH him.
That'd just be going to a whole new level.

I remember when we kissed, I still feel it on my lips.
the time that you danced with me, with no music playing.
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Posted 05 November 2009 - 04:57 PM

er..... ok?

no, ive never had an imaginary boyfriend, in the way that i pretend hes actually real.
but ive had a lot of daydream boyfriends and about the perfect guy; and that sir, is

Kwon. Tae. Hyun.

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Posted 05 November 2009 - 05:04 PM

^ LMAO!
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Posted 05 November 2009 - 05:12 PM

um, i dream about boys who don't exist, ehehe.
but I did this when I was little, playing with my barbie dolls .


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Posted 05 November 2009 - 06:16 PM

QUOTE (thua @ Nov 5 2009, 03:30 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
First, I was like:
=)

Then I was like:
=|

And by the end, I lost all hope:
o_o


Exactly. >:!
But sometimes I maging what it would be like having a k-celeb boyfriend! haha!
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#18 User is offline   agnes. 

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Posted 05 November 2009 - 08:27 PM

lol no? that's just weird.
i did imagine having a boyfriend but not making up an imaginary person to be my bf. lol.

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Posted 05 November 2009 - 09:13 PM

do you mind if i ask if you're an only child?

and even though it would be considered weird, i do know one or two people who have done this...so you're not alone, although it isn't really a good habit
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Posted 05 November 2009 - 09:25 PM

I think you should stop thinking about an imaginary boyfriend and try to get a real boyfriend >_>. Not to sound mean or anything..

If you waste all your time on an imaginary person then you wouldn't be getting any experience in relationship...unless you already do..then...uh...Have fun.
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