Psychotic? i'm freaked out...
#1
Posted 07 November 2009 - 02:48 AM
First off I'd like to ask everyone a psychology question;
This one girl's mom just died and she's at her mother's funeral and she meets this really, really
cute guy and they start talking and she pretty much falls in "love". The funeral ends and he leaves
and she realizes she didnt ask for his number or name or anything so how does she contact him?
The very next day she kills her sister.
Why?
You're wondering why I'm asking this and how it has anything to do with anything, well i'll explain.
Okay so I broke up with my recent bf and in summary, he is a big fat liar and a thief. Now before you judge
and tell me, why would I be with someone like this in the first place, let me tell you I honestly did not know. He is
a master of manipulation. His lies are so well constructed and even if he is caught out he will make the
biggest scene and go through such lengths that you start to question yourself and then feel guilt that you accused
him. I know its incredibly hard to understand and i'll try to give examples but theres just so darn much!!
He stole my friends money and was so slick about it, he even looked around for her and then went to all the places
she has been to and asked to check cameras and yell at all those people accusing them of stealing it when he
was the one who stole it in the first place.
He keeps clinging to me and showing up everywhere iam and always asks me where im going and then he still
tells everyone im his girlfriend, not to mention he keeps threatening suicide if I leave him which makes me think
he never really loved me, he's just way obsessed because I was his first.
He made one of his friends pretend to be a "gangster" and go up to his dad and force him to give him money and then
afterwards his friend has to give it to him. WHO DOES THIS?? I'm so afraid that he will steal from my parents
and me now that he can steal from his family. What if one day he gets over me and decides to rob my parents
store?
There are sooo many other things he's done that are so out there its not even..possible. So i honestly don't
know what to do with him I think there is something wrong with his head and I'm going to ask him that question
and depending on his answer will tell me if he is a psycho or not.
If you guys want to know the psycho answer i'll tell you after everyone tells me what they think =))
#2
Posted 07 November 2009 - 02:57 AM
First off I'd like to ask everyone a psychology question;
This one girl's mom just died and she's at her mother's funeral and she meets this really, really
cute guy and they start talking and she pretty much falls in "love". The funeral ends and he leaves
and she realizes she didnt ask for his number or name or anything so how does she contact him?
The very next day she kills her sister.
Why?
She kills her sister in hopes of the guy coming back again for her sister's funeral.
#3
Posted 07 November 2009 - 03:25 AM
I never ever guessed it right until I saw the real answer, like it was totally unexpected.
My friend got it right a few years ago. It freaked me out.
I should have totally asked this q to my ex, considering he was a psycho
#4
Posted 07 November 2009 - 04:21 AM
#5
Posted 07 November 2009 - 04:53 AM
#6
Posted 07 November 2009 - 05:03 AM
#7
Posted 07 November 2009 - 08:06 AM
LOL, nope, you're not the only one.
but point is, i don't think asking him that question would help any, esp since you seem to think he's already pretty crazy (and that's what he sounds like to me too, quite honestly)... so it's just kind of like. why bother?
and it's not really accurate either.. actions speak louder than...cognitive abilities.
but wow, seriously go to the police if you're afraid. 'cause that's straight up ridiculous.
don's got the right idears.
#8
Posted 07 November 2009 - 08:48 AM
Anyway, looks like you're in a really tough situation. I don't know what to say but to slowly get away from him. If you suddenly block him out of your life, he'll most likely feel really offended and do something crazy just out of anger. Make yourself so busy that you'll essentially have no time for him.. and hope that he'll move on.
#9
Posted 07 November 2009 - 11:48 AM
Darn it! U beat me to it. My friend asked me that question before cuz he thought I was loony. Seriously though, that question isn't enough to gauge whether someone is really psychotic or not. It's really just for fun.
Back on topic, ur ex seems more than loony to me. I don't see the point of asking that question when the fact is right before ur eyes: this guy will do whatever to get what he wants. U can usually tell how a person is by how he/she treats his/her family. Well, now u know. It's best to try and distance urself from him as much as possible. Get help from legal authorities if need be, but don't let this guy manipulate his way back in ur heart.
#10
Posted 07 November 2009 - 11:56 AM
It said if you got it right, you have a mind of a murderer. (around those lines)
Yeah.. your bf seem to have issues... big ones
Aren't you're afraid he's gonna go crazy if you ask him that?
#11
Posted 07 November 2009 - 11:59 AM
you need to alert your parents and the authority if he does anything that might threaten you guys' safety. It's not your job to cure him so don't take things into your matters, I also don't know whether talking about this with him is wise since he is obviously in denial and might get angry at you.
#12
Posted 07 November 2009 - 01:25 PM
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#13
Posted 07 November 2009 - 03:00 PM
#14
Posted 07 November 2009 - 03:07 PM
and could only come up with answers like; maybe the sister was the guy's gf or
knew him but didnt tell her sister his phone number ='(
Yeah I know it probably wont be able to tell if he actually is crazy or not just from one question
but i'm tempted just to see what he says haha.
The thing is he's really very pitiful, he has no friends and his family isn't really around here anymore
they moved to asia and my parents really hate him because he's lied to them as well, so I
feel really bad for him. Its not like he has never ever done anything for me so I guess
I can only slowly drift away from him...which is kind of hard considering he knows where I live
and work and all my friends information as well and even if I had a restraining order put on him
I don't think that will really stop him.
Also he's really big and tough so most of my guyfriends probably won't be able to do anything to him,
sadly which makes it even scarier!
#15
Posted 07 November 2009 - 04:26 PM
a movie and I was only 8. The movie said only psychos gets it right and I kept thinking I was psychotic when I was a kid, now that I think back you have to be retarded not to get this
#16
Posted 07 November 2009 - 05:15 PM
and i told them straight out she wanted to see the boy at the sisters funeral
then they were all shocked n called me a psycho killer lolz
i means its logical rite?
neways for ur personal life
i think u should stay away from him
tel ur parents bout him so if nething happens ... they would be aware
n just stop contact\
#17
Posted 07 November 2009 - 07:54 PM
I think this guy's psycho. Not just a random speculation, but it sounds like something my grandfather was describing when he said my uncle was psychotic(manipulating and lying).
#18
Posted 07 November 2009 - 08:20 PM
cute guy and they start talking and she pretty much falls in "love". The funeral ends and he leaves
and she realizes she didnt ask for his number or name or anything so how does she contact him?
The very next day she kills her sister.
^ D: I got a different version, I heard it last year from my brother.
He said there was a funeral and and this the two daughters attended. Their mother had had died and there was a lot of people there. One sister saw some guy sometime into the funeral. The next day, her sister dies, why did she die?
Your version makes it sound so much easier D:
I seriously couldn't get anything from my version, the closet guess I got was that she liked the guy or something.
Anyways back on topic. You know he's not right in the head if he got his friend all dressed up and made him rob his own father.
#19
Posted 07 November 2009 - 08:47 PM
IRT the OP, I'm sorry to hear about your situation. Use it as a learning experience and don't become one of those girls who goes from one crazy relationship to the next because they begin to crave the drama/excitement/etc. that being with someone who is socially deviant brings.
#20
Posted 07 November 2009 - 10:13 PM
I had a girl friend who had a LOT of trouble breaking up with her bf because the guy kept threatening to release her secrets and tell lies about their relationship. Basically he kept her stuck with her for over a year before he accepted that they weren't together anymore. The guy was being super immature about it and always made a scene...etc.
You have to CHOOSE the right guys. I'm gonna make a lot of assumptions here, but I think that the guy you dated was probably a guy who wears a lot of white or black, wears a baseball cap, bagging jeans, and acts gansta. If I'm wrong, then I apologize. Maybe that's the kind of guy you want to date, but you also have to think of the consequences of getting with a guy like that.































