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Why am I feeling like this?
#2
Posted 07 November 2009 - 01:48 PM
oh man.. thats really got to hurt. :l im so sorry you had to go through something like THIS.
i just have to say it. he's not worth it. move on with your life because there are plenty of fish in the sea =)
it will take time of course and time is the only thing that will cure you from this empty feeling.
this empty feeling, it's normal to feel like this. it just hit you so fast and hard what he did. im trying to put myself in your shoes right now and ive had similar situations before. it could be feeling empty or feeling betrayed, heartbroken. you loved this person so much and the next second, he's gone.
go out, hang with friends, see a movie, chic flick, just do something that will bring your mood back up and distract you from thinking about it.
another tip would be, as BAD as it sounds (it works to a certain extent), find someone else to distract your heart from. who knows, maybe someones been eyeing you lately :]
i think i wrote a lot of nonsense. sorry :x hope i helped.
i just have to say it. he's not worth it. move on with your life because there are plenty of fish in the sea =)
it will take time of course and time is the only thing that will cure you from this empty feeling.
this empty feeling, it's normal to feel like this. it just hit you so fast and hard what he did. im trying to put myself in your shoes right now and ive had similar situations before. it could be feeling empty or feeling betrayed, heartbroken. you loved this person so much and the next second, he's gone.
go out, hang with friends, see a movie, chic flick, just do something that will bring your mood back up and distract you from thinking about it.
another tip would be, as BAD as it sounds (it works to a certain extent), find someone else to distract your heart from. who knows, maybe someones been eyeing you lately :]
i think i wrote a lot of nonsense. sorry :x hope i helped.
#6
Posted 07 November 2009 - 03:40 PM
Man, that must be rough. The guy must not be the right one for you then if he doesn't like you just for race. I think that's a bit.. harsh. It really is normal to feel this way after something like this happens, especially when it's under these circumstances. I think you should just try to find someone else and find someone better, you know? You don't deserve someone who doesn't like you just because you're an ethnicity that isn't even in your hands.
Try to get your mind off it for awhile and go out, have fun, play with some friends or whatever that calms you down! I'm sorry to hear about what happened though :/ I hope what I said helps though.
Try to get your mind off it for awhile and go out, have fun, play with some friends or whatever that calms you down! I'm sorry to hear about what happened though :/ I hope what I said helps though.

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#8
Posted 07 November 2009 - 05:21 PM
Well, since you lost all feelings for him already, what does it even matter? You were worried about it being awkward between you two, but now you don't even have to worry anymore. You're probably feeling this way, because it's kind of you got rejected first instead of you rejecting him. You thought you stopped liking him, but it turns out he stopped liking you too and that hurts your ego.
#9
Posted 07 November 2009 - 10:00 PM
The empty feeling comes from this mutually affectionate connection that the two of you shared. But what made the feeling so strong is not from how it happened, but why it happened. He stopped liking you because of petty prejudices, which is not a proper reason. The emptiness is what should have been there had he shed some of his bigotry.
#10
Posted 07 November 2009 - 10:02 PM
That's pretty darn messed up. Why would he write dislike___(insert race here)? That's just ew.
Anyway, who cares about him then? You shouldn't. Move on and ignore that jerk.
Anyway, who cares about him then? You shouldn't. Move on and ignore that jerk.

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#11
Posted 08 November 2009 - 12:27 AM
ok since he just lost interest in you just like that it shows that he never liked you that much to begin with, nor did you him. So it's fine, just get over it, don't think so much.
#12
Posted 08 November 2009 - 12:38 AM
The rapid, minimal, and evaluative processing of the emotional significance of the sensory data is done when the data passes through the amygdala in its travel from the sensory organs along certain neural pathways towards the limbic forebrain. Emotion caused by discrimination of stimulus features, thoughts, or memories however occurs when its information is relayed from the thalamus to the neocortex.
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분당에 있으면 메시지 보네. 한잔 쏠게!
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분당에 있으면 메시지 보네. 한잔 쏠게!
Your country ain't your blood. Remember that.
#13
Posted 08 November 2009 - 02:01 AM
QUOTE (Popsickles @ Nov 7 2009, 02:55 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
^ lol, why does that matter?
I'm just curious. A lot of my friends are sort of racist. They're always hating on this race called Hmong.
But then again, perhaps I'm reading everything incorrectly.
#14
Posted 08 November 2009 - 04:27 AM
QUOTE (kcn_ @ Nov 8 2009, 01:40 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
racial discrimination = douche bag
agreed.
that's totally messed up, yeah..move on
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