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#1 User is offline   NoBreak92 

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Posted 08 November 2009 - 04:54 PM

You had a boyfriend/girlfriend but you found out that he or she is cheating on you, going out with one of your BEST FRIENDS??? So this is kind of like a korean drama thing hahaha but it could happen although it's pretty rare. But if that happened, what would you do? Would you betray your best friend?

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#2 User is offline   JinEnjuce 

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Posted 08 November 2009 - 05:03 PM

With me, it'd probably end up like those R Kelly/ Ron Isley music videos in the 90s. Tell the girl to hit the streets, beat up the dude in some desert, with some R&B singing in between.
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Posted 08 November 2009 - 05:07 PM

Obviously, I would break up with him, and no, I would never do that to one of my friends.
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Posted 08 November 2009 - 05:16 PM

I would break up with him. Majority of cheaters will still continue cheating, or they have issues deciding on who to be with.

I would confront my "best friend" about this. As our friendship, it will never be the same again - that is, assuming that we are still on speaking terms. If someone is able to lie straight to your face when they know relationships are a sensitive topic, they will think their future lies will be no big deal.
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Posted 08 November 2009 - 05:49 PM

Lol... this happened to this one girl at my school before. She found out her boyfriend was going to dump her for her best friend, and her best friend dumped her boyfriend to go out with him. The 2 dumpees started going out afterwards.
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Posted 09 November 2009 - 12:07 AM

Thankfully, I have friends who would never do that to me, but if it were to ever happen ...
I'm not one to just break up and let them happily date one another. Before I confront them, I'd make sure to ruin their lives in some way ... possibly adding hair removal cream to their body wash/shampoo?!? It doesn't solve the problem, but it will definitely make me feel better.
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Posted 09 November 2009 - 12:20 AM

QUOTE (NoBreak92 @ Nov 8 2009, 04:54 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
You had a boyfriend/girlfriend but you found out that he or she is cheating on you, going out with one of your BEST FRIENDS??? So this is kind of like a korean drama thing hahaha but it could happen although it's pretty rare. But if that happened, what would you do? Would you betray your best friend?


What the hell would you do? Have you asked yourself this yet before posting it up on here?
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Posted 09 November 2009 - 12:20 AM

dont break up with him.. and then taunt him.. : D
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Posted 09 November 2009 - 12:21 AM

denial. hatred. regret. depression. acceptance.

of course, over a period of a 5-10year passive-aggressive, grudge-baring, woman-hating social life of ruining relationship after relationship, thinking every day of how john teshed up that the girl i thought was the one for me, the truest and happiest thing in my life, was a complete john teshing lie. the two people i trusted the most in the world i had before i closed down and shut off from the world. had john teshed me over.

then i'd start to forget and let go of this grudge when i become a workaholic alcoholic gambler wife+daughter beating white-collar. though it's supposedly deep-seated now in my subconscious.

_ i know that sounds a little dramatic. but eh. believe it or not girls, some guys are crippled after a break up.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mhxK2IOywVE < a purer form of what i said.
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Posted 09 November 2009 - 12:52 AM

lol, like most people, let go :3

I rather hab them be happi together than ...

this "triangle" relationship =3=;

n if he regrets loosing meh, it's his fault :] tew bad for him.

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Posted 09 November 2009 - 01:03 AM

I'd just feel entirely cut and break up with him. Oh, and hate my best friend too... considering she was clinging onto my boyfriend. If she were my best friend, she would know how much i love him etc etc since i wouldn't go out with a guy unless i really liked him.
But yeahh, the guy... nah.. i'd hate the girl more than the guy.
But i think i'll get over it in a year.. or is that too long? lol
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Posted 09 November 2009 - 01:11 AM

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I'd just feel entirely cut and break up with him. Oh, and hate my best friend too... considering she was clinging onto my boyfriend. If she were my best friend, she would know how much i love him etc etc since i wouldn't go out with a guy unless i really liked him.
But yeahh, the guy... nah.. i'd hate the girl more than the guy.
But i think i'll get over it in a year.. or is that too long? lol

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Posted 09 November 2009 - 01:17 AM

break up with him (i'm a guy so i guess it would be a her), and stop talking to the best friend.

Why stop talking to the best friend?
1. friendship will never be same.
2. guilt. I've had people who did terrible things to me emotionally come up a year or two later to apologize and many of you who have been cheated on had this too. One day they will feel so guilty about what they did and they have to talk to you about it. They MUST have you hear them say sorry in order to feel better. When that happens, justice served.
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Posted 09 November 2009 - 01:49 AM

If they were truly my best friend, they wouldn't be dating my boyfriend in the first place.
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Posted 09 November 2009 - 02:24 AM

Find better friends and break up with the fool.
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Posted 09 November 2009 - 02:29 AM

Am I still the only one who would bust out into an R&B song after dumping the girl and beating the guy up in an abandoned lot? sad.gif
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Posted 09 November 2009 - 02:39 AM

^ LOL. That would be a funny site (For us, not you).
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Posted 09 November 2009 - 04:04 AM

QUOTE (A-choo @ Nov 9 2009, 06:52 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
lol, like most people, let go :3

I rather hab them be happi together than ...

this "triangle" relationship =3=;

n if he regrets loosing meh, it's his fault :] tew bad for him.


Wow, seriously? You wouldn't care that your boyfriend is emotionally cheating on you with your best friend, and would rather that they be happy? Have you been in a relationship before?
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Posted 09 November 2009 - 04:53 AM

That moment when you find out your s/o has been cheating on you, for those of you who haven't experienced it yet, it truly makes you feel so ... humiliated and crushed, trust me on this one. I'm a vengeful person (I know, horrible trait) and I can't seem to forgive people easily so I would never talk to them again (unless they're in complete misery and I happen to be there to say, "Good going."). It would be hard to let a good friend go but once you betray my trust, that's it, I'm gone. Though she couldn't have been a good friend if she started dating my boyfriend in secrecy, hmm?

The biggest mistake you can do in a situation like this is to reveal your anger, don't give them the satisfaction of knowing they've crushed you, don't display any kind of violent reaction towards this, just cut off all contact with them and be on standby ... that is, until first chance to destroy them comes up and it's all yours. Let them see that the silent rage is the most frightening and scariest kind.

Haha, just kidding. ( ... or am I?)
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Posted 09 November 2009 - 10:37 PM

well i would break up with him(duh???) cheaters are cheaters

specially when his having an affair with my bestfriend

which is the badest thing a guy could ever do

and the stupidiest thing my bestfriend would do to betray me(well i know my bestfriend wouldnt do that to me though,,, trust me she wouldnt do that well yeah whatever im side tracking hehe biggrin.gif biggrin.gif biggrin.gif ,,,)

and there's still a lot guys in this world

just like A-choo said its his lost not mine hehe...



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