What would you do IF ...
#1
Posted 08 November 2009 - 04:54 PM
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#2
Posted 08 November 2009 - 05:03 PM
#4
Posted 08 November 2009 - 05:16 PM
I would confront my "best friend" about this. As our friendship, it will never be the same again - that is, assuming that we are still on speaking terms. If someone is able to lie straight to your face when they know relationships are a sensitive topic, they will think their future lies will be no big deal.
#5
Posted 08 November 2009 - 05:49 PM
#6
Posted 09 November 2009 - 12:07 AM
I'm not one to just break up and let them happily date one another. Before I confront them, I'd make sure to ruin their lives in some way ... possibly adding hair removal cream to their body wash/shampoo?!? It doesn't solve the problem, but it will definitely make me feel better.
#7
Posted 09 November 2009 - 12:20 AM
What the hell would you do? Have you asked yourself this yet before posting it up on here?
#8
Posted 09 November 2009 - 12:20 AM
#9
Posted 09 November 2009 - 12:21 AM
of course, over a period of a 5-10year passive-aggressive, grudge-baring, woman-hating social life of ruining relationship after relationship, thinking every day of how john teshed up that the girl i thought was the one for me, the truest and happiest thing in my life, was a complete john teshing lie. the two people i trusted the most in the world i had before i closed down and shut off from the world. had john teshed me over.
then i'd start to forget and let go of this grudge when i become a workaholic alcoholic gambler wife+daughter beating white-collar. though it's supposedly deep-seated now in my subconscious.
_ i know that sounds a little dramatic. but eh. believe it or not girls, some guys are crippled after a break up.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mhxK2IOywVE < a purer form of what i said.
#10
Posted 09 November 2009 - 12:52 AM
I rather hab them be happi together than ...
this "triangle" relationship =3=;
n if he regrets loosing meh, it's his fault :] tew bad for him.
#11
Posted 09 November 2009 - 01:03 AM
But yeahh, the guy... nah.. i'd hate the girl more than the guy.
But i think i'll get over it in a year.. or is that too long? lol


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#12
Posted 09 November 2009 - 01:11 AM
But yeahh, the guy... nah.. i'd hate the girl more than the guy.
But i think i'll get over it in a year.. or is that too long? lol
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#13
Posted 09 November 2009 - 01:17 AM
Why stop talking to the best friend?
1. friendship will never be same.
2. guilt. I've had people who did terrible things to me emotionally come up a year or two later to apologize and many of you who have been cheated on had this too. One day they will feel so guilty about what they did and they have to talk to you about it. They MUST have you hear them say sorry in order to feel better. When that happens, justice served.
#14
Posted 09 November 2009 - 01:49 AM
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#16
Posted 09 November 2009 - 02:29 AM
#18
Posted 09 November 2009 - 04:04 AM
I rather hab them be happi together than ...
this "triangle" relationship =3=;
n if he regrets loosing meh, it's his fault :] tew bad for him.
Wow, seriously? You wouldn't care that your boyfriend is emotionally cheating on you with your best friend, and would rather that they be happy? Have you been in a relationship before?
#19
Posted 09 November 2009 - 04:53 AM
The biggest mistake you can do in a situation like this is to reveal your anger, don't give them the satisfaction of knowing they've crushed you, don't display any kind of violent reaction towards this, just cut off all contact with them and be on standby ... that is, until first chance to destroy them comes up and it's all yours. Let them see that the silent rage is the most frightening and scariest kind.
Haha, just kidding. ( ... or am I?)
#20
Posted 09 November 2009 - 10:37 PM
specially when his having an affair with my bestfriend
which is the badest thing a guy could ever do
and the stupidiest thing my bestfriend would do to betray me(well i know my bestfriend wouldnt do that to me though,,, trust me she wouldnt do that well yeah whatever im side tracking hehe
and there's still a lot guys in this world
just like A-choo said its his lost not mine hehe...



























