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#1 User is offline   Superduperduckypants 

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Posted 09 November 2009 - 08:17 PM

I'm not sure if this has been posted before, but I couldn't find this topic so I decided to make a new one.

I know that when it comes to losing your virginity it shouldn't matter how long or short anyone else has waited but how ready the couple feels. smile.gif

But, I guess I'm just interested to see how long people have and this is a good way to find out without running up to random people and asking them haha

SO! The question is

How long were you with/dating the person before losing your virginity?

How old were you?

Did you regret it or did you think it was the right time?

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#2 User is offline   Savageponies 

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Posted 09 November 2009 - 08:22 PM

I haven't lost mine but I guess 6 months? ish?

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Posted 09 November 2009 - 08:37 PM

I'll bite, because my situation wasn't normal.

How long were you with/dating the person before losing your virginity? I wasn't with them. I was friends with him for almost a year and was the closest thing to in love that I could have been at that age. The weirdest thing about the whole situation is that I never really thought or cared about sex at the time, he just asked if I wanted to go home with him, I knew what that meant, and just. . .went anyways. I guess I was sort of indifferent to the idea of the experience.

How old were you? 15.

Did you regret it or did you think it was the right time? I don't regret it. We dated for a short time after that, it didn't work out because we were both young, we stayed friends for years to come, just lost contact, really. It may not have been the most special experience like everyone dreams of it being, but it definitely could have been a lot worse, and for that positive, I'm thankful. I don't know if I would say it was the right time, but it wasn't the wrong time, either.

I guess I'm pretty indifferent towards the entire experience, even now, haha.
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Posted 09 November 2009 - 08:45 PM

I haven't lost my virginity yet.

but probably after dating 1+ years?
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Posted 09 November 2009 - 10:16 PM

How long were you with/dating the person before losing your virginity?
our first month....something about him was different. He didn't want to do it since he knew he was my first but
i wanted it bad LMAO

How old were you?
19

Did you regret it or did you think it was the right time?
hell no..i'm still with him actually and our 6 months is coming up and i really do love him smile.gif
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Posted 10 November 2009 - 12:27 AM

Haven't lost virginity. Was together for 2 years, never went beyond sleeping in the same bed haha...

But I would try to wait till marriage? haha I'm pretty old fashioned ><'

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Posted 10 November 2009 - 12:41 AM

QUOTE (Superduperduckypants @ Nov 9 2009, 08:17 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
But, I guess I'm just interested to see how long people have and this is a good way to find out without running up to random people and asking them haha


You must be a virgin. A curious one.
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Posted 10 November 2009 - 12:42 AM

i was with my boyfriend for three weeks when we had sex. i was sixteen/seventeen and no i don't regret it. i don't really see virginity as a big deal, though i wasn't in a hurry to lose it. it just happened, and it doesn't affect me much,
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Posted 10 November 2009 - 01:13 AM

How long were you with/dating the person before losing your virginity? I ummm... did it the first time I met him in real life >_> dry.gif I talked to him online for like a month

How old were you? 19

Did you regret it or did you think it was the right time? Nope, I could care less about losing my virginity.

Don't worry I used a condom... >_> dry.gif babies is a no no xD
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Posted 10 November 2009 - 02:59 AM

I haven't lost mine yet. I'm gonna wait for marriage since my boyfriend doesn't want to do it anyway.
He told me he wanted to do it after he put a wedding ring in my ringfinger smile.gif
Because I think my virginity is precious, I'm willing to give it only to my husband.
I am old-fashioned, yes biggrin.gif
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Posted 10 November 2009 - 09:35 AM

How long were you with/dating the person before losing your virginity? 7 months.

How old were you? We were both 17.

Did you regret it or did you think it was the right time? I have no regrets whatsoever. I knew it was the right time. I was never the type of person to put a set time-line for when to do these types of things. I wanted to save my virginity -- not for marriage, but for when I knew I was ready and with someone incredibly special to me who I knew loved me for all the right reasons. I'm really not a conservative person, but for me personally, I consider it a big step in life and I don't want to make that step with just anyone or at any old time. smile.gif I'm still dating the person I lost it to, and now we've been together for almost 2 years.


Also just my two cents, I think waiting for marriage is a bit dumb. Not morally, but practically. I'm glad I didn't wait because now my honeymoon sex won't suck. We'll actually know what we're doing. JUST MY OPINION. wink.gif
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Posted 10 November 2009 - 10:30 AM

QUOTE (PristineNyte @ Nov 9 2009, 11:37 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I'll bite, because my situation wasn't normal.

How long were you with/dating the person before losing your virginity? I wasn't with them. I was friends with him for almost a year and was the closest thing to in love that I could have been at that age. The weirdest thing about the whole situation is that I never really thought or cared about sex at the time, he just asked if I wanted to go home with him, I knew what that meant, and just. . .went anyways. I guess I was sort of indifferent to the idea of the experience.

How old were you? 15.

Did you regret it or did you think it was the right time? I don't regret it. We dated for a short time after that, it didn't work out because we were both young, we stayed friends for years to come, just lost contact, really. It may not have been the most special experience like everyone dreams of it being, but it definitely could have been a lot worse, and for that positive, I'm thankful. I don't know if I would say it was the right time, but it wasn't the wrong time, either.

I guess I'm pretty indifferent towards the entire experience, even now, haha.

LOL, WTF? Are you me? laugh.gif
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Posted 10 November 2009 - 10:43 AM

haha this again? intersting to see the differences.

I'm still a virgin and both me and my girlfriend want to wait till after we are married. i wouldnt call it old fashioned. but its just more special to me than to others i guess.
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Posted 10 November 2009 - 11:30 AM

How long were you with/dating the person before losing your virginity?
I wasn't going out with him, he was a friend kinda. Guess it was more of a lust based friendship?
But I did go out with him for 6-7months before that but we'd broken up for about a year before we had sex.

How old were you?
16, actually was at the beginning of the year.

Did you regret it or did you think it was the right time?
I didn't regret it nor did I love it. It just happened. I don't think it was the right time cos it was spur of the moment but oh well.
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Posted 10 November 2009 - 12:34 PM

How long were you with/dating the person before losing your virginity?
About 3 weeks

How old were you?
18, few months before turning 19

Did you regret it or did you think it was the right time?
It's been 3.5 years so no.
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Posted 10 November 2009 - 12:52 PM

I'm still waiting.
'Til I got that ring on my finger, baby.
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Posted 10 November 2009 - 02:10 PM

How long were you with/dating the person before losing your virginity? Not too long. 3 months? After that we stayed together for 2 years.

How old were you? 17.

Did you regret it or did you think it was the right time? I think it was the right time. No regrets.
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Posted 10 November 2009 - 02:18 PM

How long were you with/dating the person before losing your virginity?
We've been together for 15 months, and I have yet to lose it, LOL.

How old were you?
We've been dating since I was 17 and he was 19. I'm 19 and he's 20 now. (If the numbers don't make sense, it's because I have a late birthday.)

Did you regret it or did you think it was the right time?
The thing is, I don't want to regret it. Right now, I ask myself if I'm ready and I question my response. That straight up tells me that I'm still unsure about taking the next step. Along with that is the fear of pregnancy and blah blah blah.
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Posted 10 November 2009 - 03:34 PM

How long were you with/dating the person before losing your virginity?
About a month into our relationship.

How old were you?
I was 18.

Did you regret it or did you think it was the right time?
I don't regret it, just felt right at that time.
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Posted 10 November 2009 - 07:30 PM

How long were you with/dating the person before losing your virginity?
I think 5 months? or so.

How old were you?
16

Did you regret it or did you think it was the right time?
Not at all (: Still with him, and still loving him like crazy<3
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