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I lied... How do I fix it?

#1 User is offline   piaoyi 

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Posted 10 November 2009 - 09:02 PM

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Posted 10 November 2009 - 09:05 PM

Just tell him the truth.
Say you weren't comfortable with sleeping over and it was a spur-of-the-moment lie.
Apologize and say that you acknowledge the fact that lying is wrong, and then take it from there~
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Posted 10 November 2009 - 09:14 PM

kids these days only known him for two weeks and he's already your bf?
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#4 User is offline   piaoyi 

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Posted 10 November 2009 - 09:17 PM

^ well, he asked me to be his gf and I accepted because we have been having a good time every time we hung out. And we're not that young, we're both of college age.
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Posted 10 November 2009 - 09:35 PM

^^ yeah but, age doesn't matter. That's just mad awkward since it's only been two weeks. you guys are practically still strangers (kind of).

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Posted 10 November 2009 - 09:37 PM

it is okay, just let it go! Don't beat yourself up too much over it tongue.gif
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Posted 10 November 2009 - 09:44 PM

The issue here isn't about what you lied to your bf about, it's the fact that you had to lie to him. Is there a reason why you couldn't tell him, like he has a short temper or something? Either way, this instance is insignificant enough to just shrug off. But try to work out any trust issues, or it'll be heartbreak and tears down the road. Building trust is one ofthe important factors of a lasting relationship.
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Posted 10 November 2009 - 09:48 PM

Since it's the first just let it pass. But in the future if you feel uncomfortable with anything he does or says, just let him know. You don't have to be pressured into doing things you don't want to do, so it's best to be straight up about your feelings with him. If he's a good boyfriend then he'll totally respect you're stance and you shouldn't have to lie. Good relationships are based on honest, trust, and communication.
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Posted 10 November 2009 - 10:19 PM

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I know I lied, but I just don't know what to say to him


"My friend came over, so I couldn't stay for the night. Sry to get your hopes up."
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