[piaoyi]

problem resolved, please close this thread

[Danieruchann]

It kind of depends on how your boyfriend can handle it.
If he is mature and calm and willling to accept that you didnt have very good judgement because you weree drunk, i think itll be fine. just assure him that you wouldnt let that happen again and that yea, you know? just apologize for doing that.

However if he is the jealous type, you may not want to bring it up.
Also, who else knows, you and your ex? and your ex might not even remember it? So you could just pretend this whole thing never happened and spare your boyfriend the worrying.

[Crazy LuLu]

your behavior is immature yet you demand 'mature' replies? anyways -- if you're serious about your relationship with your new boyfriend, tell him. he has a right to decide whether he'll forgive you and pursue a relationship with you or not.

[edit] do what's best for you and your current boyfriend.

[piaoyi]

@Crazy LuLu: Mature replies as in I don't want people bashing on me for what is already done, but instead giving me advice on what I should do now.

[Blinddd]

Wow...


I don't think you're ready for a new bf if you're gonna carelessly kiss another pair of lips. Tell your new bf and see where things go. It's not fair to him -.-

[Amaranthine Memories]

Yes break up with him because he clearly does not deserve a girl who cannot make good judgments. Seriously, people who have s/o should make their decisions wisely and you failed to do so. Why drink considerable amounts when you know you'll end up doing something bad? Don't give me some BS thinking you wouldn't do anything wrong, cause you did.

Immature comments are not essentially bashing or whatever you call it and comments like mine are absolutely necessary. Say whatever you want, but I really don't care what you have to say. All of this goes into agreement with Crazy Lulu.

Please, do yourself and your boyfriend a favor. This guilt will be a burden you'll carry for quite some time.

[jaeka]

For some reason, reading this, I was just like...
You were drunk... you were asleep... you didn't know...

...
what he doesn't know can't hurt him right?

>_>

Only cause I've did the same thing, minus it wasn't my ex... the guy was sober... and he didn't even kiss me back, more or less, held me up and was like 'WOAAHHH WAIT JUST A SEC.' T_T
Unfortunately, my boyfriend saw the whole thing so... yea. ~___~;;;;

You want a mature answer so here it is:
Bite the bullet. You made a mistake, tell your boy, take the consequences.
Also,
DRINK RESPONSIBLY ;D

[tinatran_]

well, i think you should tell your boyfriend. it sounds bad and all, but you're telling the truth. if he gets mad, just remember that it was your choice to drink and get drunk, when you could've just declined. whether he gets mad or not, make sure something like that doesn't happen and hopefully, you've learned from that mistake.

[peppermintsugar]

Lol you make a lot of threads.

[taebins_luver]

well, at least she said she 'let' something happen
come on, she's owning up to it

*note: i came AFTER OP was deleted, so i assumed she kissed or someone kissed her*

[piaoyi]

I ended up telling my bf and he was mad, but accepted that it happened. I brought up that maybe we should break up, but he wants us to get over this.

Anyways, thanks for replying soompi members.

and @PristineNyte: just recently I have been, you guys/gals give good advice.