[Gofishus]

Man I take one of my female friends out to dinner and she ends up talking more about her bf than herself! it's ok the first few times, but I really don't want to hear what your bf had for breakfast or how often he shaves himself ok? it's not the first time this has happened either, anyone else get into these situations with their female friends?

[HaplessChild]

Are you single by any chance?

j/k

Most guys just don't want to hear about other guys in general. We can't help it.

[Tuffcore]

Never had that happen to me but i have with women and their kids.

Ladies, no one cares how cute your kid is, seriously. It's not like we've never seen a cute kid before or anything.

[babiloveyoo]

One of my female friends would not stop talking about her boyfriend so I told her to talk about something else and she said
" Look, I know your jealous because you can't stand that I found my ideal man, you're such a pinkberry. Hmph."


LMAO! We haven't talked since .

[danielluv]

Lol I can understand if it's the beginning stages or the 'honeymoon' period, it's kinda cute to hear it in a way. But afterwards it gets pretty annoying and you start to wonder in your head if they're unhealthily obsessed. I'm pretty private about my 'love life' (or at times lack of it) so unless someone actually asks about it, or if I'm talking to my bestie who knows everything going on in my life and would actually care what's going on more...
I don't bring up stuff.

[Raindeer]

lol, im one of those... but I got over it eventually as I realised myself that I am talking too much about him. Now I don't even feel like talking about him anymore so I guess its good

[peppermintsugar]

I thought I would have this problem a lot, but I actually don't. Last time I hung out with my best friend (a week ago), I hardly mentioned my boyfriend at all because we had a thousand other things to talk about instead.

[wendaYYY]

LOL they make me crack the shiits.

[EHNerJI]

lol, a girl in my class was like that.
i really didn't mind at first, but then it was pretty much all she talked about.
she would bring him up for the most unrelated things..
then it got annoying.. and she would pity me for being single haha.
like: "ahhh i love my boyfriend~ do you have a boyfriend? no? awwww"
i was like kaaaaaaaay... there's nothing wrong with being single rofl.
once or twice is fine, but jeez. i get it haha.
they broke up and now she doesn't talk about him anymore (:

[Lie]

I agree, it gets to be annoying. In fact, I didn't think anything could be worse, until I met someone who talked that frequently about HER DOG. Ugh. And it's a dog with a human-sounding name, so you constantly have to remind yourself that these long, unnecessary stories you're listening to are about her dog.

[ExpiredRamen]

One thing I really don't get about people is when they think I give a fukc about their life

I really don't =\

[lightangel]

omg totally agree with u there soo annoying becuz i have a friend that is like that every time i talk to her is all about her bf this and bf that
its make me irritated. =.= seriously

[termination_override]

I'm a girl, and my best friend NEVER SHUTS UP ABOUT HIM.. even now that they're broken up. o_o;;; and then she's like I KNOW I KNOW I DO but then she doesn't exactly try much to shut up about it. ;;;;;;;

[Regina Rae]

Never happens to me. My friends and I are pretty private about our boyfriends.

[Xiaoba1tu]

Most guys just don't want to hear about other guys in general. We can't help it.

Some girls don't want to hear it either.


What he ate for breakfast is definitely way too much. Hasn't happened to me but that would be funny..

[HaplessChild]

Some girls don't want to hear it either.


What he ate for breakfast is definitely way too much. Hasn't happened to me but that would be funny..

Usually just the single ones. The ones in relationships can usually relate and it can be a real conversation.

For some of us the s.o.'s are a huge part of our life and almost everything we do has something to do with them so it just makes sense to talk about them as well. I can't talk about a single day in the past 13 or 14 months that didn't have something to do with my bf in it. I try to curb it when I'm talking to other guys because I know they don't want to hear a word about him but it's hard to dodge a topic that literately occupies (at least) every [other] day.

[Xiaoba1tu]

I think it's just a girls thing though (talking about what they did with their bfs).
I have a guy friend who I talk to a lot and he nevers talks about his gf (together for 2 years now). I sometimes have to ask how she is because I'm not sure if they are still together.
The only time he refers to her, is when he's going to do something for her birthday or they are celebrating their anniversary.

[PRRRETTYGLiTTERRR]

lol i do that but to my girlfriends actually to my guy friends too but ill try not to do that anymore.....

[robottran]

She probably doesn't want you to hit on her? So she rubs in the fact that she has a boyfriend.

[EHNerJI]

Usually just the single ones. The ones in relationships can usually relate and it can be a real conversation.

For some of us the s.o.'s are a huge part of our life and almost everything we do has something to do with them so it just makes sense to talk about them as well. I can't talk about a single day in the past 13 or 14 months that didn't have something to do with my bf in it. I try to curb it when I'm talking to other guys because I know they don't want to hear a word about him but it's hard to dodge a topic that literately occupies (at least) every [other] day.

Of course there's nothing wrong with that.
It's reasonable, and I do the same as well.

BUT when it gets annoying is when the other person clearly doesn't care,
yet, you continue to go on and on about your relationship and how amazing everything is rofl.

For me, it's not jealousy. It's just like.. is there nothing else we can talk about?
It's kind of hard to have a real conversation with someone,
when all they have to say is how much they love their boyfriend and other details that I don't care to hear.
At least have some depth to what you're saying.
(Not directed at you, just my situation with the girl in my class)

I'm not saying people aren't allowed to talk about their s/o, because that's completely fine.
But some people really do seem to take it too far, lol.