Has anyone here not based a crush initially on looks?
#2
Posted 14 November 2009 - 08:43 PM
my boyfriend is like average looking, not super hot, not ugly either, just average ~
so wasnt crushing on him for his looks. because there are so many other cute guys OMG XD
but yea, ive known him forever, since elementary school but i was afraid if him.. so i got to know him just last year and i liked him because of how he talked to me and treated me and yea, personality :D ~!
so yea, not looks for me~!
#3
Posted 14 November 2009 - 08:56 PM
but once i had a crush on the DORKIEST guy ever! even my friends were questioning my sanity lol. he was very geeky-looking and his face was always oily LOL. when i saw him, my firs thought was "wow, why is his face so shiny?" and i didn't really notice him...but i started to have a crush on him after i found out how nice he was and how adorable his personality was!
#5
Posted 14 November 2009 - 10:04 PM
I was seeing someone when I met my current boyfriend, and I have pretty serious tunnel vision when in a relationship (or whatever it was), but I definitely remember thinking that he was rather cute XD
#6
Posted 14 November 2009 - 10:13 PM
Yup. A really good sense of humor is what gets me first.
#7
Posted 14 November 2009 - 10:16 PM
Interesting question, but I'm gonna have to go with no.
Not because I'm THAT shallow, but because in order for me to have a crush on anyone,
there has to be this physical attraction that pulls me towards them...
Then I get to know the guy better and that's when it turns into an even bigger crush.

I remember when we kissed, I still feel it on my lips.
the time that you danced with me, with no music playing.
#8
Posted 14 November 2009 - 10:20 PM
I think when we hit high school and upward is when we start getting initially attracted by looks. Since I met him^ in middle school, no one had any real sense of fashion during those years anyway WAHAHA.
#9
Posted 14 November 2009 - 10:50 PM
#10
Posted 14 November 2009 - 11:14 PM
Then he somehow got me on a date I didn't wanna go on and enjoyed myself immensely. Which eventually lead to me being very attracted to him, emotionally and psychically rofl weird.
#11
Posted 14 November 2009 - 11:18 PM
I told my sister and friends who I like and they all turn away and say "rly"?
But I think he's good-looking no matter what.
Now, I can't even tell apart generally good-looking guys from average or "bad-looking ones".
#12
Posted 14 November 2009 - 11:19 PM
Lol after I turned 14? It just stopped.
Call me weird or whatever but the people I end up liking, I usually like their personality- funny, outgoing, confident (sometimes they're like below average lol).
I still think guys are hot, and sometimes they're SUPER hot lol but that's just acknowledging their hotness, I don't actually end up liking them. That's not attraction. Guess I'm not as shallow as some people.
#13
Posted 14 November 2009 - 11:21 PM
#14
Posted 15 November 2009 - 12:18 AM
AMARANTH CLAN <3
#15
Posted 15 November 2009 - 12:37 AM
when i was little i had a crush on this guy because he was really nice and a good friend.
i honestly never knew of his existence (even though he sat at my table) until he was like "you play that? me too!" when i was blabbing on about random stuff to everyone around me lol. then we started becoming friends because of that haha
#16
Posted 15 November 2009 - 01:04 AM
#17
Posted 15 November 2009 - 01:45 AM
Then after weeks of talking to one another I found him to be physically appealing.
#18
Posted 15 November 2009 - 02:03 AM
#19
Posted 15 November 2009 - 02:13 AM
well when there's a cute guy I talk to him if his personality is a turn off I stop talking to him.
and cute is subjective
#20
Posted 15 November 2009 - 02:36 AM
My current crush is definitely not because of looks, more like because his personality was really great when we first met. He has a good sense of humour, and was very down to earth and very easy to be around, so naturally I liked him.
































