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Has anyone here not based a crush initially on looks?

#1 User is offline   Gummy Dogs 

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Posted 14 November 2009 - 07:20 PM

hmmm... no? I didn't think so..
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#2 User is offline   Danieruchann 

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Posted 14 November 2009 - 08:43 PM

i didn't.
my boyfriend is like average looking, not super hot, not ugly either, just average ~
so wasnt crushing on him for his looks. because there are so many other cute guys OMG XD
but yea, ive known him forever, since elementary school but i was afraid if him.. so i got to know him just last year and i liked him because of how he talked to me and treated me and yea, personality :D ~!

so yea, not looks for me~!
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Posted 14 November 2009 - 08:56 PM

me! but i'll admit MOST of my crushes start off with physical attaction.

but once i had a crush on the DORKIEST guy ever! even my friends were questioning my sanity lol. he was very geeky-looking and his face was always oily LOL. when i saw him, my firs thought was "wow, why is his face so shiny?" and i didn't really notice him...but i started to have a crush on him after i found out how nice he was and how adorable his personality was!
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Posted 14 November 2009 - 09:25 PM

i have actually twice
its usually because the guy would do some small gesture that totally brings up the world.
aha i'm one of those lonely people when even the smallest thing can totally turn things around ><
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#5 User is offline   peppermintsugar 

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Posted 14 November 2009 - 10:04 PM

Well, generally looks are the first thing to attract you to someone, but there have been plenty of guys that I've dated that I didn't find a physical attraction to until I got to know them much better.
I was seeing someone when I met my current boyfriend, and I have pretty serious tunnel vision when in a relationship (or whatever it was), but I definitely remember thinking that he was rather cute XD
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Posted 14 November 2009 - 10:13 PM

QUOTE (PristineNyte @ Nov 15 2009, 01:04 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
there have been plenty of guys that I've dated that I didn't find a physical attraction to until I got to know them much better.

Yup. A really good sense of humor is what gets me first.
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Posted 14 November 2009 - 10:16 PM



Interesting question, but I'm gonna have to go with no.
Not because I'm THAT shallow, but because in order for me to have a crush on anyone,
there has to be this physical attraction that pulls me towards them...
Then I get to know the guy better and that's when it turns into an even bigger crush.

I remember when we kissed, I still feel it on my lips.
the time that you danced with me, with no music playing.
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#8 User is offline   likelovers 

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Posted 14 November 2009 - 10:20 PM

My first (and only) boyfriend was definitely not based on looks. He had smaaaaall eyes (the typical Korean! LOL I mock out of love, btw, just so I don't get bashed here) and bad skin and his hair was gah. Don't wanna talk about it.

I think when we hit high school and upward is when we start getting initially attracted by looks. Since I met him^ in middle school, no one had any real sense of fashion during those years anyway WAHAHA.

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#9 User is offline   kevlin 

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Posted 14 November 2009 - 10:50 PM

well maybe depends on what u mean by crush? I definitely fall for people for other reasons too, like "oh wow this person has good stuff to say." "oh wow we have good times together." "oh wow we can spend extended periods of time together and it's not boring or awkward at all."
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Posted 14 November 2009 - 11:14 PM

I thought my bf was ugly. Rofl and I didn't really like his first impression he gave me which screamed "bad boy"

Then he somehow got me on a date I didn't wanna go on and enjoyed myself immensely. Which eventually lead to me being very attracted to him, emotionally and psychically rofl weird.
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#11 User is offline   connie333 

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Post icon  Posted 14 November 2009 - 11:18 PM

I used to do that but not anymore. I think as u grow older u kinda learn that looks aren't really important.
I told my sister and friends who I like and they all turn away and say "rly"?
But I think he's good-looking no matter what.
Now, I can't even tell apart generally good-looking guys from average or "bad-looking ones".
Hi this is so cool
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Posted 14 November 2009 - 11:19 PM

I don't crush on guys based on looks.
Lol after I turned 14? It just stopped.
Call me weird or whatever but the people I end up liking, I usually like their personality- funny, outgoing, confident (sometimes they're like below average lol).

I still think guys are hot, and sometimes they're SUPER hot lol but that's just acknowledging their hotness, I don't actually end up liking them. That's not attraction. Guess I'm not as shallow as some people.
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Posted 14 November 2009 - 11:21 PM

I used to base my crushes on looks but now I realize looks are nothing compared to how a person can be. I liked this guy who ended up being a total jerk so it was a real eye opener for me. I think these days I look more at personality and a person's actions rather than their looks.
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Posted 15 November 2009 - 12:18 AM

The first impression of the guy I'm seeing now was not so great. I thought he was creepy, and below average in the looks department, but something about him made me give him a second try. He turned out to be a lot like me, he's motivated, very artistic, keeps a healthy lifestyle, and cares immensely about succeeding. It was a big turn on, and now we're seeing each other. I try not to judge a book by it's cover, everyone deserves a fair chance. =)

AMARANTH CLAN <3
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#15 User is offline   ParappaRappa 

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Posted 15 November 2009 - 12:37 AM

yeah.

when i was little i had a crush on this guy because he was really nice and a good friend.

i honestly never knew of his existence (even though he sat at my table) until he was like "you play that? me too!" when i was blabbing on about random stuff to everyone around me lol. then we started becoming friends because of that haha
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Posted 15 November 2009 - 01:04 AM

The kind of guys I usually like have very attractive personalities and other people really like them and feel drawn to their presence. As long as they look average I'm fine.
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Posted 15 November 2009 - 01:45 AM

There's only been one guy that I liked solely based on his personality.
Then after weeks of talking to one another I found him to be physically appealing.

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Posted 15 November 2009 - 02:03 AM

yes there was once a guy who hung out with these other guys who I've known since childhood and to be honest, i never heard him talk. i thought he was weird, he'd sit there in silence and just stare at you. my friend and I used to be like dude, he kept staring at me the entire time and if you looked up at him, he wouldn't flinch. finally i heard him talk and eventually i got to know him better. later on, i found out that all these girls are after him and to me i'm just like really? i mean i guess he's hot... but i didn't see it at first. he made me laugh and I liked that about him. he's probably the only crush that wasn't first based off of looks.
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Posted 15 November 2009 - 02:13 AM

maybe. I don't know.
well when there's a cute guy I talk to him if his personality is a turn off I stop talking to him.
and cute is subjective
 

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Posted 15 November 2009 - 02:36 AM

^ Me too! Although this has only happened recently.

My current crush is definitely not because of looks, more like because his personality was really great when we first met. He has a good sense of humour, and was very down to earth and very easy to be around, so naturally I liked him.
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