[xx_melody]

My bf recently got an iPhone and he downloaded the infamous "Asian Boobs" app because he claims that he thought it would be funny. This is basically an application with tons of pictures of Asian girls scantily dressed in provocative poses. He shows it to all his friends and they all joke about it. I don't like the idea of him having pictures of other girls on his phone, even if they're just models. I told him I didn't feel comfortable with it and he said he would take it off if it made me happy. I didn't say anything though because I don't want to seem prudish. What should I do? It still bothers me...

For anything who hasn't heard of the app, this website sums it up pretty well haha:
http://krapps.com/2009/08/06/asian-boobs-iphone-app/

[zazinteractive]

Thanks. I need to get that app

[xx_melody]

Thanks. I need to get that app

Haha yeah I thought this might happen. It's only 99 cents too, so lucky you =]

[FraZZLE]

What are the chances of of him hooking up with those girls? Zero to none. End of story.

[WhiteRabbitsTime]

Take his iPhone and delete the app.
If he wants to "joke" around there are better ways than: "HAHAHA! This chick has got ginormous boobs! HAHAHA! "

Er, not funny.

[des monstres]

i'm sure he's not laughing about it when he's not with his friends.
...if you get what i mean.

i would feel really .. ticked if my boyfriend had that.
but then again, he watches porn.. soo..
i'm telling myself that it's the norm, blah blah.
there's not much you can do in this situation.
just confront him about it.

and it doesn't make you seem prudish.

[ShadowMax76]

w/e a guy has to do to entertain the little boys, i guess.

[kRaZiExLaDiE]

haha! i cant believe apple actually approved this app.=.="
sure it's funny to show it to your friends but yeah like that girl said above.. "i'm sure he's not laughing when he's not with his friends"
if my bf had that app i would be pissed too. i'd probably let him have his fun for a little.. like show his friends blah blah.. but after that.. that app better be gone!! talk to him about it if it really bothers you.

[RYUUSEi]

I highly doubt he has it only because it's so "funny", lol.

Just tell him to get rid of it since it's bothering you?

[mintcracker]

He's a guy. It's fine... Seriously, it's no big deal, it would suck if he had dodgy pics of ppl he actually knew though.

[naoto]

i guess girls dont like guys fantasizing. well tell him how would he feel if you had tons of firefighter calendar scans on your computer, and all you do is stare at built guys fantasizing about THEM. See if he cares or not.

I'm not sure it's such a big deal though, 10/10 guys have pictures of girls. I think as long as he has pictures of asian girls, it should be ok. I say this because you would at least want him to prefer whatever you are right, if he doesn't even prefer asian girls then yeah it would be unacceptable. Not being someone's preference usually hurts.

[dearest.me]

Boys will be boys as they say.

[peppermintsugar]

Guys like porn. They like titties and asses, and this won't change no matter who he's going out with, be it you, or anyone else. He could date the most gorgeous woman in the world, and he would still watch porn with other women in it. It has nothing to do with that.
He said he would remove it already, so that's that. Sounds a little bit like a self confidence issue. If it were some girl he went to school with or something then it would be different, but it's just some random models and stuff.
I think Brendon Urie and Zachary Quinto are greek gods, does that mean I like them over my boyfriend? That I would rather be with them than my boyfriend? That I even necessary find them more attractive than my boyfriend? Nah. They're people I don't know and never will know, and for that alone, they can never, in a million years, look good enough to over ride the intense love I feel for my guy.

[wees2dee]

^
I agree, i mean thats just an app with slutty girl pics, when your not around his probably jerking off to porn, you shouldnt feel threatened by this, its just an app designed to attract guys attention. perfectly harmless. its not like he's going to leave you for one of those girls, he said he would, then he would, but if your uncomfortable with this, then you have alot more to be worried about.

[AMIbunny]

eeek. I would get pretty pissed too....

Even though I have a hard time telling myself, "all guys are perverts. they like to look at these things.""

I mean even though he has it on his Iphone..even if he removes it, he can still watch Porn on the computer.

one way or another, he will look at naked girls.

[joogrlpekaun]

Why not just make your own addition to those pics and have him put that on his phone instead?

[ShadowMax76]

oh c'mon. it's not like you girls aren't guilty of something similar AHEMTWILIGHT.

=.=' worked my first day as a[n assistant] nurse and when i got to the lockers, there were ALL these cut outs of shirtless guys from twilight on +6/20lockers there. the workers there were late 20s to mid 30s women.

..now there's a thought. do women tend to fantasize more as they leave their teenage years? [irrelevant to topic, but i'm still waiting for an answer]

[peppermintsugar]

oh c'mon. it's not like you girls aren't guilty of something similar AHEMTWILIGHT.

=.=' worked my first day as a[n assistant] nurse and when i got to the lockers, there were ALL these cut outs of shirtless guys from twilight on +6/20lockers there. the workers there were late 20s to mid 30s women.

..now there's a thought. do women tend to fantasize more as they leave their teenage years? [irrelevant to topic, but i'm still waiting for an answer]

BLEH Cullen. Good lord don't even get me started on how hideous. . .

Anyways, not for me. When I was a young teenager I was legitimately convinced that I was in love with Gackt, on top of that, my walls were COVERED in pictures and posters of Gackt, Hyde, hide, Miyavi, Brendon Urie, etc etc. Now, I don't really care all that much.
Even when I used to go to a lot of rock shows and met a lot of good looking members, I was never really the typical fangirl like, drooling and making a scene. I got a hug and moved on with my life lol.

Maybe for older older women who are married it's more common because I guess when you're married you tend to lose all physical attraction to your partner? (or so married couples make it seem )

[x SaRaNg HaE x]

So................... are you going to make him stop watching porn next? o_o

[JinEnjuce]

Damn. I guess they do have everything on the iPhone.