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What does it mean when a boy bothers you

#1 User is offline   calvinkue401 

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Posted 19 November 2009 - 01:39 PM

Well this is my story.There's a boy in my history class and he likes to bother me but he doesnt bother me in the mean way he bothers me in the fun having fun way and he does it alot...and i sometimes see him looking at me...like maybe he likes me and its weird because he doesnt bother my other friends like he does with me..he doesnt bother them in the way he does with me and hes always walking by me and then look at me at theh corner of his eye...lol well i dont like him or anything i only see him as a good friend...but what do you guys think it means??
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#2 User is offline   T_Sport 

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Posted 19 November 2009 - 01:47 PM

I think you know what it means already... I'm sure most people will agree too.

Personally, I know that guys do it cos they're interested and want a reaction, hell, I do it too! There are instances where guys do it and they're not interested in 'that way' but I seldom hear/ see that.
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#3 User is offline   fredinsac 

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Posted 19 November 2009 - 01:53 PM

The answers pretty obvious.

He thinks you stole money from him and he wants it back. Also, you are the main suspect for poisoning his cat.




Honestly, though. It could mean anything. Some guys are just friendlier than others.
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#4 User is offline   KOGEPANN;) 

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Posted 19 November 2009 - 01:59 PM

I have a guy friend who does that to me too, in history as well.
But maybe he's just naturally annoying and does it without reason, it doesn't exactly mean he likes you, although there may be a chance, do you like him, to be reading so into what he does?
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#5 User is offline   calvinkue401 

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Posted 19 November 2009 - 02:31 PM

thanks for your opinion haha


QUOTE (T_Sport @ Nov 19 2009, 03:47 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I think you know what it means already... I'm sure most people will agree too.

Personally, I know that guys do it cos they're interested and want a reaction, hell, I do it too! There are instances where guys do it and they're not interested in 'that way' but I seldom hear/ see that.



what??haha
well yea i get you ahah but yea true he can be more friendlier than others haha thanks

QUOTE (fredinsac @ Nov 19 2009, 03:53 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
The answers pretty obvious.

He thinks you stole money from him and he wants it back. Also, you are the main suspect for poisoning his cat.




Honestly, though. It could mean anything. Some guys are just friendlier than others.



well he sometimes just treat me like someone else haha last year he wasnt like that but i guess he started having changing feelings...well no i dont like him....and yea maybe there is a chance he likes me

QUOTE (KOGEPANN;) @ Nov 19 2009, 03:59 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I have a guy friend who does that to me too, in history as well.
But maybe he's just naturally annoying and does it without reason, it doesn't exactly mean he likes you, although there may be a chance, do you like him, to be reading so into what he does?


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Posted 19 November 2009 - 03:27 PM

flirt back and see what happens, u have to find ur answer somehow, if he is only doing it for fun then be like i m doing it for fun too, but i think he likes you smile.gif
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Posted 19 November 2009 - 04:11 PM

I think it means he hates your guts. He's trying to get close to you as a way of acquiring just enough info to sell you out to the FBI. Be on your guard madame, be on your guard.
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Posted 19 November 2009 - 04:26 PM

It's really hard to say since I dont know the person lol. I personally annoy girls who I think can be my good friend, oh and especially girls who I know likes me lol.

It might be that he's just being fun around you because he feels comfortable around you. He probably can't do that to your other friends because he don't feel that close to them as oppose to how he feels around you.

One way to find out is, if he annoys you again be like "haha omg you're like my younger/older brother" and see how his reaction is. If he didn't take it too well then yeah he must like you, if not then it's probably he just feels really comfortable around you lol
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Posted 19 November 2009 - 04:44 PM

He has an interest towards you. whether as a friend or something more...

Good luck.
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Posted 19 November 2009 - 05:46 PM



I think he's into you and likes your attention, which is why he insists on "bothering" you in class.

I remember when we kissed, I still feel it on my lips.
the time that you danced with me, with no music playing.
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Posted 19 November 2009 - 05:56 PM

So a guy does the same thing to me and I have to say, it annoys the heck out of me because he's just plain annoying and not fun. His teasings used to be like whatever, but now I can't stand it. Maybe it's the fact that it's too obvious now that he likes me. So there's a great possibility that he is into you, but don't lead him on if you're not into him. ;D
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Posted 20 November 2009 - 01:08 AM

There's a possibility he likes you. Or he could just be the really friendly type.
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#13 User is offline   calvinkue401 

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Posted 20 November 2009 - 04:29 PM

haha well i already have a boyfriend but thanks haha smile.gif

QUOTE (luvsnkisses @ Nov 19 2009, 06:27 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
flirt back and see what happens, u have to find ur answer somehow, if he is only doing it for fun then be like i m doing it for fun too, but i think he likes you smile.gif



what??o.0...??okay thanks??o.0

QUOTE (Lie @ Nov 19 2009, 07:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I think it means he hates your guts. He's trying to get close to you as a way of acquiring just enough info to sell you out to the FBI. Be on your guard madame, be on your guard.



thanks soo much i didnt even think about that wow...thanks that really helped!!haha


QUOTE (mazdaspeedrx8 @ Nov 19 2009, 07:26 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
It's really hard to say since I dont know the person lol. I personally annoy girls who I think can be my good friend, oh and especially girls who I know likes me lol.

It might be that he's just being fun around you because he feels comfortable around you. He probably can't do that to your other friends because he don't feel that close to them as oppose to how he feels around you.

One way to find out is, if he annoys you again be like "haha omg you're like my younger/older brother" and see how his reaction is. If he didn't take it too well then yeah he must like you, if not then it's probably he just feels really comfortable around you lol



lol...thanks biggrin.gif

QUOTE (MrPower @ Nov 19 2009, 07:44 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
He has an interest towards you. whether as a friend or something more...

Good luck.



lol yea maybe im not sure but ill see what happens..thanks biggrin.gif

QUOTE (TICKLE ME Jx2 @ Nov 19 2009, 08:46 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I think he's into you and likes your attention, which is why he insists on "bothering" you in class.



no worries i had this boy bother the mini cooper out of me haha and its someone else but yea this boy he might like me and uyea i try not to lead boys on...biggrin.gif thanks

QUOTE (sunset* @ Nov 19 2009, 08:56 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
So a guy does the same thing to me and I have to say, it annoys the heck out of me because he's just plain annoying and not fun. His teasings used to be like whatever, but now I can't stand it. Maybe it's the fact that it's too obvious now that he likes me. So there's a great possibility that he is into you, but don't lead him on if you're not into him. ;D


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Posted 20 November 2009 - 05:52 PM

pretty obvious. has some sort of attraction and interest in you.

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#15 User is offline   calvinkue401 

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Posted 21 November 2009 - 11:29 AM

yea maybe im not sure...but yea thanks for helping... laugh.gif

QUOTE (aiambest @ Nov 20 2009, 04:08 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
There's a possibility he likes you. Or he could just be the really friendly type.



yea maybe he does i dont know yet though

QUOTE (Dreamss @ Nov 20 2009, 08:52 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
pretty obvious. has some sort of attraction and interest in you.


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Posted 21 November 2009 - 11:49 AM

Well, if you have a boyfriend, tell him to stop. Don't flirt back or anything, since it may escalate.. haha
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Posted 21 November 2009 - 04:28 PM

QUOTE (mazdaspeedrx8 @ Nov 20 2009, 12:26 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
One way to find out is, if he annoys you again be like "haha omg you're like my younger/older brother" and see how his reaction is. If he didn't take it too well then yeah he must like you, if not then it's probably he just feels really comfortable around you lol


I wouldn't entirely agree with the last line there! I really do like this one person, have done for a long time, but shortly after I felt attracted to her, she began dating someone and it's gone on for a long time now. They're great together, I know them both really well, and I don't want to be ruining a good thing...

Anyway, I'm always teasing her and stuff, she takes it well and gives back what I give in terms of insults and such. Recently she's adapted to calling me brother, on a regular basis and instead of taking it badly or showing any sign of offense, I've had to suck it up and put on a happy face and take her as an adopted sister! It's probably made us closer, but it's a step in the wrong direction!
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Posted 21 November 2009 - 05:20 PM

Does he do this to anyone else?
If not, he likes you. And that is a definite.
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Posted 21 November 2009 - 10:29 PM

Maybe he likes u... maybe he doesn't. There is only one way to find out --ask him. But if you don't want to find out, then I say just act normal... don't try to be more flirtatious or don't try to avoid him or anything. u don't want to mislead him and you don't want him to think you're a jerk. just be ignorant for now. xD
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Posted 21 November 2009 - 10:41 PM

It's most likely that he's attracted towards you in one way or another. biggrin.gif
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