[caramelon]

so i'd just like to see, if you guys think this is just ridiculous.

my boyfriend is totally nice, but he loves touching me. not in a normal "hug" sort of way though, but like, bending my fingers back really far, or lightly scratching my hand, or grabbing my stomach, or holding onto my chin. anything, basically, that is anywhere from vaguely uncomfortable, to rude and slightly painful. this is actually making me laugh as i say it, because it just sounds so absurd.

anyways, i tell him OVER and over, "STOP it" "you're annoying me" "QUIT IT", not even in a joking way. but he apparently just can't help himself from constantly doing these abnormal gestures.

by the way, he's 30, he's not a child. am i right in finding this incredibly annoying, and unreasonable that he won't just stop??

[CherieDee]

Uh... creeper.
If he respects you, he would stop.

[Malice_Kaiser]

I would find that annoying too. Goofing around is fine, but when it gets out of hand it's just childish. Especially if it hurts.

[mintcracker]

Sit him down and tell him firmly you do not like him doing those things.
Don't sound pissed, just tell him when he does these things, it really annoys you.
He should try to stop, but hey, might be some habits he can't kick.

[caramelon]

thanks guys. it's good to know i'm not just pissy. ;

mintcracker, i'll definitely try that.

[moot11]

Perhaps he thinks that he is being playful? If that is the case, I second mint's response.

[WhiteRabbitsTime]

I'm totally in the same band wagon as you.

Solution: Show him MORE attention.

Or do the same thing to him and it should even out:-)

[des monstres]

that would be kind of annoying.
especially if he doesn't stop when you want him to.

my boyfriend does really weird stuff to me too.
but i find it cute and do it back to him.

[peppermintsugar]

Hell yeah, like lovesicles said, I'd do it back to him, but to the point that it does hurt (this is of course after you try to tell him to stop and he doesn't, which you have), and then be like "SEE!? HURTS DON'T IT? NOW QUIT."
If he's going to act like a child, treat him like one.

[sus]

CRACK THE SHIets they he will stop.. well he should unless hes not normal lol

[natsurei]

Maybe it's some kind of disorder.

But..
Sometimes, o_o I do weird stuff like that to my boyfriend too..it's because he's so cute, lol i want to squish him. Ah I dunno. He probably loves you a lot c:

[epikxbang]

kick him in the balls & see if that doesn't hurt him (: . . . let's see if he keeps annoying you then ;D
haha just kidding, i agree with everyone else, talk it out !

[lillyROSE]

the boyfriend is acting so weird and i also found him annoying...

if he loves you he will find to respect you....

talk to your boyfriend before it gets worst....

take care...

[secretwishess]

Now thats really anonnyinq. Like hes not respectinq you.
Should talk to him. I mean like a real talk. You told him to stop
but he still does it.. -__- your not overreactinq. i would do the same too
if i dont want to be touch.