[DJbeastboy]

Today i was heading back to class from the cafe shop, when i notice there was this really cute asian girl with blonde hair on my right lane next to me, we were both waiting at the intersection for the green light.

I looked over and she smiled at me, but i don't know what to do!!

How the heck do i get her number while i am in my car, while she is in hers?!

Do i quickly grab a piece of notebook paper and scribble down my number and write "text me" on it and then crumble it and throw it to her window?!

Or

Do i follow her car??!(but it might seem creepy?) Well she did turned in to somewhere, while i drove up ahead, i think she was goin to bank or something.

This has happened to me twice! Last time i was heading to yogurt land, when i drove next to this girl, and she waved at me!
i didnt know what to do!

Is there any way to prepare myself, just in case i find love on the road? And have a plan to get contact with each other while we are in traffic?!

[Gofishus]

Well it's not 'love' if its based soley on physical attraction is it? But anyways, if you really want to, what I would do is see if she waves/responds back and if she does, make a gesturing motion with your thumb and head like a 'follow me' signal. And she'll probably get the signal, so you can turn into some alley/roadside get her stop behind you and then make contact. But that's really if she's very interested...

[jas0n]

You can try to roll down your window and give the gesture to her to roll down as well. Then both of you two can talk each time ya come to a traffic stop until one has to go separate ways. I like the throwing paper into her car idea, which might work too!

[ShadowMax76]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ffk00ULeEEM&NR=1

very relevant.

[i_4got]

^

Hello friend. You've been reported.

[monika j]

Well it's not 'love' if its based soley on physical attraction is it? But anyways, if you really want to, what I would do is see if she waves/responds back and if she does, make a gesturing motion with your thumb and head like a 'follow me' signal. And she'll probably get the signal, so you can turn into some alley/roadside get her stop behind you and then make contact. But that's really if she's very interested...

That sounds really freaking creepy. DON'T DO THIS. LOL.

Simply wave, roll down the window, and ask if she wants to grab a coffee.

[Nana544]

I believe the best approach is to ask her for her number that is if she seems interested, because chances are she might like you back to, and if not then you have nothing to lose. If you like someone then just tell them so. No need to make it complicated by using notes or etc....just talk to her....well, that if you see her again...

[moot11]

Well it's not 'love' if its based soley on physical attraction is it? But anyways, if you really want to, what I would do is see if she waves/responds back and if she does, make a gesturing motion with your thumb and head like a 'follow me' signal. And she'll probably get the signal, so you can turn into some alley/roadside get her stop behind you and then make contact. But that's really if she's very interested...

Holy mini cooper. That is so creepy, don't do this.

I really hope you don't subject women to this, yourself.

[peppermintsugar]

Maybe it's a sign that it's not meant to be at all. Ya know, seeing a girl of interest that there's no good way of approaching. Kind of like a forbidden fruit sort of thing?

[kcn_]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ffk00ULeEEM&NR=1

very relevant.

TOTALLY RELEVENT LOL!

[LdyxSmiles]

maybe she's trying to be nice and polite, its just a little smile
lol i find it creepy when guys stares at me while im driving. it's like wtf are you looking at =.=

[ShadowMax76]

firstly. if it wasn't obvious by now, my credibility is rather low when it comes to the opp. sex. but i think what i have to say helps with the sufferings to do with. rofl

_i know you're all heart-wrenched cos a goddess had graced you by her presence, i mean...i remember when i was 16 and that happened to me almost every train ride home from my summer job doing dishes.

but after a while you learn a few things. [or at least, start to think in a certain way to excuse your cowardice in not asking ]

1. these girls are used to the attention._ i mean, if her smile knocked you out, i'm pretty sure most guys that crossed paths with her have contributed to that biig pile of dead people behind her.
and in these situations these girls either
a) ignore you/avoid eye-contact to hint she's taken or not interested.
or smile back politely, or teasingly, and move on. feeling good about herself [and she should i suppose]

if she looks at you again. she's checking if you're still looking. if she's not smiling, it's a no. if she's making herself prettier [eg. hair touch] it's a yes.
if she looks after that one. she's tired of giving you the 3rd hint to come over and talk. or you just seem so creepy she's paranoid that you might still be just over her shoulder.

neurotic joking aside, you're a guy on the street. women typically go for more romantic situations like college, parties, weddings, possibly even family business connections. nowadays i guess more are open to the suggestion that love can be found anywhere. but if you don't strike her as more than just another guy on the street that ogles at her, you're pretty much screwed like the rest of us.

2. in these moments, you need to just enjoy the fact a goddess had just smiled at you. and let it rest.
"a smile on the street from a stranger"
"the flirting one goes through in daily life"
the "i could've, but nah.." feeling of being above street-picking-upping..and feeling wanted by women all over the street.

one could say it's a moment of destiny. the spark between two pair of eyes.
and i know it probably feels like that.
bu, to me i guess, i just think being in the situation... has already doomed me
as being some strange guy that asks girls on the street for their numbers. _ some girls see it as a fun guy, but they can sense your fear and insecurities.

approaching a woman is like approaching a cat . make a move, it'll dash down the street like you wouldn't believe. 7/10 times. if you ignore it, it'll come to you 2/10times depending on the environment [eg. club, party as opposed to across the railway tracks on a different platform] and how stunningly attractive you are.

again. just rambling. if there's anything truthful, do quote. if not, do condemn.

_ god dammit. i hate writing for so long. ==' people usually get your point before you submit your reply + suddenly you're not original anymore. -sighs-

[des monstres]

dude..
just because she smiled at you doesn't mean she digs you.
following her is creepy to the max.

maybe it was an awkward smile..
you know, the ones you make at people when you pass them in the hallways.

[sus]

haha just write ur number on a piece of paper b4 hand and give it to her hahahha
lolz well u can but realli i dunoo if shes goin to call u..
i wouldnt~~

[fredinsac]

Is there any way to prepare myself, just in case i find love on the road? And have a plan to get contact with each other while we are in traffic?!

Doing anything other than driving while driving is just asking to be the highlight of the evening news and traffic radio. No woman is worth being featured on "Red Asphalt."

If she waves, you wave back, flag her down and point to an area where you guys can pull over and talk things out. A parking lot and if it's conveniently at the parking lot of Yogurt land then it could also be a first date.

[NEEKA902]

dude..
just because she smiled at you doesn't mean she digs you.
following her is creepy to the max.

maybe it was an awkward smile..
you know, the ones you make at people when you pass them in the hallways.

I totally agree. I would be pretty creeped out by that. The sugestion about the hand gesture thing, yeah..I would advise not to do that. Hahaha..

[Gofishus]

Holy mini cooper. That is so creepy, don't do this.

I really hope you don't subject women to this, yourself.

Like I said, only if you're certain that she is returning the right signals....

[KOGEPANN;)]

Drift around her like what Han did in Tokyo Drift and exchange numbers by handing it out through your window as you pass her.

[Lilaaa]

^ hahaha, man I was just thinking the same exact thing.

[moot11]

Like I said, only if you're certain that she is returning the right signals....

Even with the right signals, this something like this will like force the the person of interest to associate negative feelings with you. Her attraction or interest can easily be swayed in the opposite direction after something like that.