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#1 User is offline   RawrPandaGoes 

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Posted 20 November 2009 - 12:54 AM

Am I the only straight guy that doesn't like (as in neutral on) boobs? Seriously, I don't get what the big deal is with other guys and their boob fetish. I mean I don't really care whether they're there.

What do the gals think?

I don't know if this is the right section. By all means, move the topic to the right section, if needed.
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#2 User is offline   ShadowMax76 

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Posted 20 November 2009 - 01:07 AM


i'll reply seriously later when i'm done laughing. -snort-
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Posted 20 November 2009 - 01:20 AM

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Why do I feel like you're trying to do the "Oh, I'm not your average hormonal sexist male pig" thing to impress females?

I'll be honest that when it comes to dating or being with a girl romantically, the size of her chest isn't even close to the top 5 on my list of things I like in a woman BUT I also won't hesitate to say that a woman's healthy bust is very aesthetically pleasing. If that's what you meant to say then cool, we understand each other now. If you're still going to keep on saying that you have a neutral stance on boobs then I think that your whole "I'm not a sexist pig" act is right up there with the "I'm not being a nice guy to get girls" fraud.
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Posted 20 November 2009 - 01:29 AM

QUOTE (RawrPandaGoes @ Nov 20 2009, 04:54 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I don't know if this is the right section. By all means, move the topic to the right section, if needed.


I don't even think this thread is necessary to begin with.

All straight guys like boobs, however some prefer other parts i.e) butts over boobs. But you don't like boobs at all that's just being gay..
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Posted 20 November 2009 - 01:30 AM

Why....I think we oughta throw some of these 'aesthetic pictures' his way, shan't we?

Though, I'm afraid by doing so that'd be somewhat objectifying (putting up pictures of what attractive breasts are supposedly meant to look like) instead of what pure intentions we have of celebrating the female's bodacious form +bosom

that and it'd be called spam at the rate i'd be doing it. and i think there's some rule on soompi about hotlinking pictures...?

if not. say ready set go, cos i got heaps of pics. :D


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okayokay, i admit. there were brief moments i have in my memory of being totally over boobs." they're just sacks of fat on someone's chest...that's gross.." but like... i think most guys know of that short period of time where sex... just isn't all that grand...[that time when you'd perhaps be balls enough to delete that massive porn folder you need to delete cos you need more memory on your hard drive] but it's such a small moment that can be kicked in the head by the next knock-out tits that walk straight by you going goo-goo-ga-ga to actually say "i don't like tits".
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Posted 20 November 2009 - 01:36 AM

QUOTE (fredinsac @ Nov 20 2009, 01:20 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
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Straight and not like women's boobs? dry.gif
Why do I feel like you're trying to do the "Oh, I'm not your average hormonal sexist male pig" thing to impress females?

I'll be honest that when it comes to dating or being with a girl romantically, the size of her chest isn't even close to the top 5 on my list of things I like in a woman BUT I also won't hesitate to say that a woman's healthy bust is very aesthetically pleasing. If that's what you meant to say then cool, we understand each other now. If you're still going to keep on saying that you have a neutral stance on boobs then I think that your whole "I'm not a sexist pig" act is right up there with the "I'm not being a nice guy to get girls" fraud.


I'm not trying to impress anyone; this is Soompi, who would I be trying to impress? I'm most likely never going to meet anyone on here. Anyway, it's just that I don't see the big deal about them.

My opinion is: Okay, girls have boobs, good for them. I just don't see what's so special about them.

"don't like"= this is just the absence of liking i.e. neutral view
"dislike"= a negative view
I just wanted to point this out because it seems like a lot of people don't know the difference.

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Posted 20 November 2009 - 02:06 AM

Honestly, no. My guy doesn't give a crap about boobs at all, he's a hardcore ass/face man. In fact, early in our relationship he went as far as to say he didn't like boobs (because his last girlfriends were big and saggy XD), but I suppose now he's upgraded to indifference.
He definitely prefers the butt by far. Boobs are pretty useless in comparison.
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Posted 20 November 2009 - 05:13 AM

Eh, I guess I'm sorta like that. While I do have interest in them(so weird explaining my level of boob interest rofl), I'd have the equal level of attraction to a girl with big boobs to a girl with small ones. Whatever the size, appreciate that they're there(or even if they're not, in some cases lol).
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Posted 20 November 2009 - 05:58 AM

Are you a hipster?

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Posted 20 November 2009 - 09:01 AM

Well, you're a human being. There's differences and then there's similarities with others. If you don't like boobs then you don't. It is however weird that a guy is saying this. Most of the time, guys loves boobs >_<
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Posted 20 November 2009 - 09:10 AM

I'm neutral on the subject of boobs. I mean, hey. Flat girls need love too!
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Posted 20 November 2009 - 09:34 AM

Well some of my male friends are like that too, no big deal right?

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Posted 20 November 2009 - 09:46 AM

http://janddshow.com/?page_id=5 - Episode 7 - podcast this week on "relationships" talks about this as one of the first thing guys looks at.
guys are shallow and just because hes not a "breast guy" doesnt mean that hes not looking elsewhere.
for me personally, no - i am not a breast man. my counterpart, is not either. he's more of a butt-guy and im more of a legs-guy.

so rawrpandagoes, u are not alone on this one.

face is #1 though, above all. am i wrong? (physically, im not saying that looks is #1 over other girls traits... but its up there for sure)


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Posted 20 November 2009 - 11:30 AM







On a serious note, it's not the most important thing... but doesn't exactly hurt either.
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Posted 20 November 2009 - 11:35 AM

It's fine that you don't care much about breasts, it's your personal preference and it's fine. Just like some people prefer brunettes, or not prefer brunettes. Its just not your kink.
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Posted 20 November 2009 - 08:33 PM

QUOTE (PristineNyte @ Nov 20 2009, 02:06 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Honestly, no. My guy doesn't give a crap about boobs at all, he's a hardcore ass/face man. In fact, early in our relationship he went as far as to say he didn't like boobs (because his last girlfriends were big and saggy XD), but I suppose now he's upgraded to indifference.
He definitely prefers the butt by far. Boobs are pretty useless in comparison.

That brings up a point: maybe it's just me, but thinking about the future, I know boobs are going to sag. That's nasty. =/

QUOTE (j_and_d_show @ Nov 20 2009, 09:46 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
http://janddshow.com/?page_id=5 - Episode 7 - podcast this week on "relationships" talks about this as one of the first thing guys looks at.
guys are shallow and just because hes not a "breast guy" doesnt mean that hes not looking elsewhere.
for me personally, no - i am not a breast man. my counterpart, is not either. he's more of a butt-guy and im more of a legs-guy.

so rawrpandagoes, u are not alone on this one.

face is #1 though, above all. am i wrong? (physically, im not saying that looks is #1 over other girls traits... but its up there for sure)

It's just that all the guys I know keep saying that I'm gay.

And yes, I definitely think face is numero uno. (:
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Posted 20 November 2009 - 09:03 PM

no, i don't think you're gay or weird. you just don't really care about them, just because you're indifferent about them doesn't make you gay. there's probably other things that you're attracted to, and you just said it, you care about the face.

in fact, one of my guy friends prefers small boobs over big ones, every guy is just different, what can you say


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Posted 21 November 2009 - 12:36 PM

QUOTE (RawrPandaGoes @ Nov 21 2009, 05:33 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
It's just that all the guys I know keep saying that I'm gay.


All the guys here are saying you're gay too. I think it's just a guy's thing maybe to find that weird. Or maybe because boobs are just overrated. Like some girls would go:

"Oh my God! You don't like Edward Cullen?? What's wrong with you?!"

Judging from the comments of females here, we just don't really have any real thought about it? -lol- You don't like boobs then go flat girls wink.gif nothing wrong about that. smile.gif
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Posted 21 November 2009 - 01:01 PM

well who cares? afterall, it's just 2 globules of fat on a chest with two dots for nipples hehehehhe
maybe ur the bum-fetish type? O.o
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Posted 21 November 2009 - 04:10 PM

I don't see how it's gay to not like boobs, but hey, I'm not a guy LOL
I can't really determine a male equivalent to boobs that I can level with, but I think it's fine to not have a thing for boobs. Like others say, maybe a person who doesn't like boobs has a thing for butts; I know lots of guys like that(:

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