[softsleepypillow]

hi everyone...

have you ever regretted breaking up with someone? like you did not realize what you had until it was gone or that you made a terrible mistake by letting them go?...

[sojuiicy]

Yeah, I pushed them to their limits and then yeaaaaaah. That's why you learn from it! Easy come easy go. If they love you they'll come back to you or at least talk to you about it

[doritosbag]

yes.

But I realized that about a week after we broke up. Apologized and asked him for forgiveness. :] I was surprised when he agreed.

[bonjour tristesse.]

-sigh- sadly. but it was the best option, it was simply time to let go.

[MangoStar]

Eh. . . yes. Only I'm the one they regret letting go.

[vTecPower]

Never. Just forget about it, it wasn't meant to be.

[Cheri.B*]

Yes and No

When i broke up with my ex,
I realized that I miss him so much and how much he played a role in my life.
He rejected me after a week from break up and it turns out he found a new girl.

Then I found this new bf who was 10x better and it turns out life can get better.

[AhYee]

Kind of, but then I realized it was for the better.
It benefitted me, and I learned a lot of things about myself and how I handle relationships.
So I guess I did at first, but then everything turned out to be okay.

[peppermintsugar]

It's a very, very, common thing to do, especially when you're younger and making the best decision is more difficult. I've done it, it sucks, but it's all worked out in the end.

[rachilde]

Emotionally, people are attached to habits--good or bad. Rationally, I don't miss anyone. I break up with people on a rational basis. Time can heal all emotional wounds. But time can't heal being wrong.

[WhiteRabbitsTime]

I never look back on anything or for anyone. Makes life smooth sailing:-)

[Tuffcore]

I will be hated for saying this but here's a guy's answer to the question...







Yes, i will regret but only if i didn't take the opportunity to have sex with them.
Truth...

[mintcracker]

You start regretting bc you miss them, not necessarily cos you know you made a mistake.

[Mzz L]

When I get weak, yes.
I broke up with my ex cos he screwed me over.
I did love the guy - so when I was missing him I regretted it so bad.
I wanted to tell him it was okay, I wanna be with him no matter what he did.

But I fought myself and I'm glad I did.

[sixth.]

I've only ever regretted one breakup; I'd broken up with him purely because my friends had were constantly bringing up details from his past and trying to brainwash me into thinking he was a jerk. After we broke up, I realised how stupid it was to listen to a third party's opinion on how my relationship should work. Lesson learned.

[Apple.Mint]

Nope i haven't
When the decision to break up with a bf comes up, it usually means we have gone through a lot already and it's really is time to let go.
I do admit that i really misses my ex right now and wish that we can start over
but if he doesn't want to, it's fine.
I was the one that broke up with him and I don't regret it, at that time he was a jerk
Now that we started contacting each other again, we both questions if we should get back together but this is a new decision in our life.

[NEEKA902]

Yes, for maybe a second? When I thought about it clearly, I didn't regret at all. I'm glad I did it..haha.

[melissa-in-nowhere-particular]

Yes. We broke up because of petty little things, he was confused and paranoid, I couldn't take it anymore. I'm still madly in love with him which is why I regret it and because I can't stop thinking about him. But I know as time goes by, I will get over him.

[teelee]

Yes.

Three years ago, this one guy asked me to be his girlfriend, however, I was/am not allowed to date, so after three weeks of "going out" I told him it isn't going to work, mainly because we don't even hang out, and he thought it was weird that I hugged him when I see him (we were 14, haha). The following year and continuing to this year (three years long) I started to have the biggest crush ever on him. Now it is very clear that we both like each other, we talk almost everyday, he calls all the time, and we have been webcaming each other twice and thrice a week for the past four months.

I regret not being patient with him. I was fourteen, thus very very impatient and unstable. Despite the fact that I cannot go out on dates with anyone, I got pissed off because he never really asked me out on a date. After I told him, I learned (on the same day) that in the morning someone told him that it looks like I would "break up" with him, he told her that I am a very understanding and good person, and I would never do that and he was going to ask me to come over for Thanksgiving that year. Well, guess what? I was not that understanding. Knowing that he thought of me that way really bites. And now we go to different schools, he just got out of a very bad relationship and is not ready to move on, I have a problem dating someone knowing they will be going away very soon (strict no dating senior year policy), we both have majorly different plans for college (unless he gets rejected by the Air Force, which is quite unlikely, we would be a five hours drive apart after this year).

[ShadowMax76]

nope. guess i'm kinda stubborn.
if i ever break up, i'm not half-arsed. i'm not saying "there's something, but there's not enough." or "you're good, but someone else is better"
i'm saying "there's nothing anymore. never will. never can be"

'spose it's cos i try to stick to the relationship until i can't take it anymore. regret can't be felt over all the relief. or logic. lol.. >_>