). He also rested his eyes for part of the bus ride and I ended up spending the 10 minute bus ride trying to will him to look at me. I had a crazy urge to grab his arms screaming "LOOK AT ME!" haha, but I just ended up getting off at my stop like a normal person... Is there something I could've done without looking crazy to grab his attention? Has anyone else fought the urge to do something crazy in front of someone (and did you win or lose? >< kekeke)
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Fighting the urge to do something stupid... It's difficult
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Posted 21 November 2009 - 08:13 PM
So, a pretty good looking guy gets on the bus and he's standing right in front of me, but the problem is he's looking out the windows and not around the bus at the people (like me ). He also rested his eyes for part of the bus ride and I ended up spending the 10 minute bus ride trying to will him to look at me. I had a crazy urge to grab his arms screaming "LOOK AT ME!" haha, but I just ended up getting off at my stop like a normal person... Is there something I could've done without looking crazy to grab his attention? Has anyone else fought the urge to do something crazy in front of someone (and did you win or lose? >< kekeke)
). He also rested his eyes for part of the bus ride and I ended up spending the 10 minute bus ride trying to will him to look at me. I had a crazy urge to grab his arms screaming "LOOK AT ME!" haha, but I just ended up getting off at my stop like a normal person... Is there something I could've done without looking crazy to grab his attention? Has anyone else fought the urge to do something crazy in front of someone (and did you win or lose? >< kekeke)
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Posted 21 November 2009 - 08:17 PM
LOL. That's so cute.
I would have just gone up to him:
Me: "You have something on your hair."
Him: "Thanks!"
Me: "I'm Cat, by the way....and you are?"
Him: "Joe"
Me: " Maybe we could get lunch together sometime?"
Etc.etc....
Catch my drift?
Get him talking and the rest is history:-)
GOOD LUCK!
I would have just gone up to him:
Me: "You have something on your hair."
Him: "Thanks!"
Me: "I'm Cat, by the way....and you are?"
Him: "Joe"
Me: " Maybe we could get lunch together sometime?"
Etc.etc....
Catch my drift?
Get him talking and the rest is history:-)
GOOD LUCK!
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Posted 21 November 2009 - 08:31 PM
haha you should casually bump into him when the bus comes to a sudden stop LOL. and no, this hasnt happened to me rofl. honestly, they usually see me first. but since i have a boyfriend i look away or at my ipod 
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Posted 21 November 2009 - 09:09 PM
Those are both good ideas >< >< Arg, if only I hadn't been sitting down... it felt awkward...
But I'm ready for next time! Bwa ha ha ha!!!
But I'm ready for next time! Bwa ha ha ha!!!
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Posted 21 November 2009 - 09:58 PM
At least you had the guts to look at him for so long. haha xD
I don't pay much attention to ppl on the bus. I'm usually looking at something in my hands.
anyway, i hope you spot him again and start a conversation... i think a good way is to hide ur cell phone and ask him for the time.. then go from there? i dunno.. xD
good luck!
I don't pay much attention to ppl on the bus. I'm usually looking at something in my hands.
anyway, i hope you spot him again and start a conversation... i think a good way is to hide ur cell phone and ask him for the time.. then go from there? i dunno.. xD
good luck!
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Posted 22 November 2009 - 12:06 AM
LOL! oh man i've tripped getting onto the bus one time and that got everyones attention ...
but then again i don't think you want him to see you in that state
do you guys go to the same school etc? maybe ask him what courses he's taking if you happen to sit next to him
but then again i don't think you want him to see you in that state
do you guys go to the same school etc? maybe ask him what courses he's taking if you happen to sit next to him
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Posted 22 November 2009 - 10:51 AM
Next make a comment about something he's wearing like "Hey, nice (scarf/shoes/whatever) you have, where'd you get it?"
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Posted 22 November 2009 - 11:11 AM
QUOTE (WhiteRabbitsTime @ Nov 21 2009, 08:17 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
LOL. That's so cute.
I would have just gone up to him:
Me: "You have something on your hair."
Him: "Thanks!"
Me: "I'm Cat, by the way....and you are?"
Him: "Joe"
Me: " Maybe we could get lunch together sometime?"
Etc.etc....
Catch my drift?
Get him talking and the rest is history:-)
GOOD LUCK!
I would have just gone up to him:
Me: "You have something on your hair."
Him: "Thanks!"
Me: "I'm Cat, by the way....and you are?"
Him: "Joe"
Me: " Maybe we could get lunch together sometime?"
Etc.etc....
Catch my drift?
Get him talking and the rest is history:-)
GOOD LUCK!
OMG SO SMOOTH~~ i would so date you if you did that to me LOL.
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Posted 22 November 2009 - 01:14 PM
QUOTE (MrPower @ Nov 22 2009, 01:00 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
ask if you can sit next to him the next time, and engage in small talk.
That's how i started with my crush a while back.
That's how i started with my crush a while back.
Yes. This works a lot! When I used to live in Minnesota I made a lot of female friends just making small talk on the bus. A lot f the females I approached were so flattered I made small talk with them. This is also, how I met my ex. Don't be afraid to start a convo with a guy. It doesn't have to be scripted. Just say what's on your mind.
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