[somelilboi]

So like i met this girl a couple weeks ago and we hang out after class like two times a week, and i finally asked her to go play pool but, she brought along a guy friend and i was confused it seemed to be going good at first, but he jus popped up outta nowhere. Am i in the friend zone?


on a side note my friend has a problem too.
-This girl used to hang out him him alot and like she used to touch him a lot too it seemed like she liked him a lot, but recently she hasnt been hanging out with him did she lose interest?

[ANJEE<3]

not necessarily

it could be quite a few things

- she isn't comfortable to be alone with you so she bring her friend to help create conversation
- she's shy so she brings him for above reason
- he's a friend who is protective of her and didn't want her to go alone (you don't sound that old.. you're teenager? no offense if you are older) and so he can "check you out"
- she brought him intentionally to let you know subtly that this isn't a date
- you didn't imply that this invite was meant only for her so she thought she could bring a friend



this totally brings up what happened to my friend once, it's not the same but well yeah haha thought i'd mention it anyway.. this happened like 3 years ago

i was bored and online talking to a friend S (who is a girl), i asked her if she wanted to do something and she said that she was going to the movies with this guy from school so i was okay that's fine i'll find someone else to hang out with. she asked me if i wanted to go too since the guy that she's going to the movies with said he's bringing a friend. so she brought me along cause i had nothing to do anyway and the friend that the guy was going to bring ended up having "something important" to do and couldn't make it... LOL so it ended up being me, S, and her guy friend..

after we left and S and i was going home i started to laugh so hardd!! this is what i took of the evening
he was too shy to ask her out directly so he asked her to a movie and said he was going to bring a friend so it would be less awkward. she didn't really think of it as a date so she took his word and actually invited a friend which ended up being me... in my opinion that guy never invited a friend and it was his excuse to be alone with her without making it too obvious that it was a date. you know the whole "yeah! my friend bailed, so now it's just the two of us" type of thing


so my advice unless you want to end up like that guy again... BE MORE DIRECT!!