[Niji-kun]

So... I've had a crush in this guy for about 2 or 3 months now. But he's straight, so I know not to make a move on him or expect anything out of it. I started to hang out with him a lot more often because our groups of friends started to join together. He's always been fine with me being bi, too. He'd always be nice to me and text me all the time,and even talk to me when he needed cheering up. We became pretty close and I was glad we could be such good friends.

All of a sudden, he stopped texting me, replying to my texts, and when I'd try to talk to him, he'd give me short answers when I tried to talk to him, making it clear he didn't really wanna talk to me. It really hurt me because I had feelings for him. Then out of nowhere, he started talking to me again, and I tried helping out with his problems because he's been feeling a little depressed lately because of problems with one of his best friends. He told me thanks for talking to him and helping him, and I was happy we could be friends again.

But a few minutes later, he texted me again saying "And please don't think there's something going on just because I'm talking to you. Alright dude?" I asked him what he meant by that, and he said "IDK, figure it out, if not, never mind, haha".

I don't know if I'm overthinking it, but it sounds like he might've found out about my crush on him, that being why he began to ignore me? (I told a few of our mutual friends about the crush before). I feel kind of hurt, but I don't know what I should do. Any thoughts/opinions? =/

[ooBah]

yeah im pretty sure he found out. i dont think there's anything for you to do, just have to get over it like any other rejections and move on. no need to create awkwardness or drama that could ultimately separate your other friends

[sumoberrylu]

yeah he found out and is freaked out now. Just move on and pretend nothing happened/you don't like him in that way.

[luv4dawave]

Yup. He knows. It may not even be your friends that told him, but just by your actions.
Anyways, he obviously does not want to be in that kind of relationship with you
so you're going to have to get over your crush.
Otherwise it may be difficult for you.
So, pretend nothing happened and just consider him a friend?

Good luck!

[wnelek]

He probably knows. You're glad to be his friend, so don't become too greedy (sorry, that word isn't the nicest use, I know) and try to make it more than it can ever me and lose the friendship you have wif him. Atleast he still is your friend. A lot of straight guys will completely cut off contacts when they find out their bisexual friend has a boycrush on him.

[mal3ficum]

it seems like he knows, and felt kind of iffy about it. if you still want to be friends with him, try not to get too close to him because he might feel uncomfortable.

[taebins_luver]

he knows.
i have to ask, were you expecting something to happen in the beginning?
i mean, yeah, he was cool with you being bi and stuff,
but did he ever show you interest or something to make you think something?
not to be mean or anything, but just because he texted and talked to you,
you kinda led yourself on thinking there's something more to it when there wasn't,
so in the end, you broke your own heart.


decide if you want to still be friends or not, he still considers you a friend in a sense that he's still texting you