[terrorist]

the girl i like asked me to stop talking to him for 3 years

[PhuongNguyen]

Had a dream that my parent got into a car accident; so I woke up just completely terrified. It was one of the worst feeling in the world; I literally got up and went to see what they're doing. Didn't feel like crying but it did make me really bothered because that feeling kept coming back and kept replaying in my head.

I've been with my boyfriend for four months now... there are times when he is affectionate and then there are times when he doesn't seem to care about me. His feelings for me seems to always be on and off. One week, he'll say that he loves me... the next week he'll say that he only thinks of me as a friend. He broke up with me twice because he said that he had no feelings for me. But he continued to come back to me, saying that he wants to work it out and that he'll try. Then a problem hit him and I stood by him and supported him through it all. He finally realized how much I loved him and he really appreciated it. For a time, he was affectionate and seemed to care. But recently he just seems to not care anymore. He doesn't pick up my calls or return my text messages. And he always seems to be annoyed or mad with me. Now, all I can think about is breaking up with him... because even though I love him, I can't be with someone who doesn't love me back. I feel like my love is unreturned and that all the efforts I put in is useless. So I just want to cry... and break it to him.

Or am I expecting too much? Four months is really short. Maybe it hasn't been long enough for him to develop feelings for me.

Four months is definetly not short. If you go out with someone; you should have feeling for them to begin with. It seems to me like your boyfriend doesn't know what he wants; and he's treating you like that because you're pretty much letting him. If he don't want you; the relationship is off, if he does; it's back on... don't give him the power to make all the choices. If he's treating you like crap; it's because he know he can. I've seen this happened to many of my friends... their boyfriend decide when to break up and when to get back together; eventually... the situation will only get worst. If you have enough; then just break up with him once and for all... if you want to give him another chance; then change the way the relationship work; don't think that he'll eventually make up his mind of whether he wants to be with you or not; because chances are... it'll continue to go on until you wasted years of your lives.

[yungkrnblood]

A "close" friend of mine consistently disregards my feelings. I've decided to ignore her.

[xhoshiii]

Why does it seem that you care about her, your best friend and ex-girlfriend, more than you do me, your current girlfriend?
I don't care how much you SAY you care about me and that she's a "hard-headed b**ch".

ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS.

[strawberrylovee]

My bf has been leading me on this time, my friend told me he asked a girl if he liked her and she said yes.

And he looked happy.

But he's too afraid/shy to break up with me, because of my freaking overprotective brother.

Why can't he just break up with me? whenever I see that he likes her, and not me, I feel terrible. I feel like my heart's ripping out and sizzling in my stomach acid /:


...and I still love him.

[Antz]

when i started crying over asking when i'd see him next.
BLAHHH.
it was an emotional time of ours.

[Ohgeewee]

My 16th Birthday is in a couple of days. But no one knows.

[Suigintou]

He called me BORING.

*siiiiigggggggghhh*

My appeal got denied too :|

Not a happy day T_T

[classic x]

stop bothering him please
and why are you so cold to me?
what have i done

[cutemee128]

My bf has been leading me on this time, my friend told me he asked a girl if he liked her and she said yes.

And he looked happy.

But he's too afraid/shy to break up with me, because of my freaking overprotective brother.

Why can't he just break up with me? whenever I see that he likes her, and not me, I feel terrible. I feel like my heart's ripping out and sizzling in my stomach acid /:


...and I still love him.

In my opinion, from what I'm hearing, you're just insecure right now. If he's still with you right now, there's a reason behind it. He may like another girl, but the one that he loves is you... and he may just be happy that the other girl liked him because it boosted his self esteem that more than one girl wants to be with him. I've been through this kind of situation, but I was like your bf. It was at the start of my relationship with my boyfriend now and I liked another guy from my work place. But I was already developing feelings for my bf, so when I found out that the guy that I liked also liked me back (even though it made me really happy), I couldn't do anything about it. I might've liked another guy, but I had no desire to go after him because I already had someone that I wanted to be with. He may be going through the same thing I went through, but he's choosing to stay with you because you're the person that he wants to be with. So what if he likes her? If he loves you, his small crush will disappear sooner or later.

But, if his crush is growing and he doesn't want to be with you anymore, but stays with you because of your brother... then I advise you to take the initiative and break up with him. It's better to hurt now then to continue hurting. =]

[Antz]

last night he was crying on the phone when i mentioned my eye condition.
and he told me he'll give me his eyes because he's the one who's gonna save me
T____T
but i don't want his T__T seriously hope my future will be okay.

[mayva]

My boyfriend and I are going through some tough times right now. Lately we've been disagreeing and just ticking each other off. It's hard to fight a battle in which I have no idea if we can win yet in my heart I would rather fight this battle then be anywhere else. I talked to him last night and it seems almost as if he�s ready to give up as well when usually he's the one always telling me, "everything will be okay". It just hurts that I haven't been able to smile and laugh like I once did, it's hard sitting next to him with such a frail look on my face in silence because opening my mouth and talking would probably just lead to an argument. For some reason I cried myself to sleep last night realizing how much I cherish him and how I don't want to lose him but yet it just feels like the ice is thinning itself on us. I'm trying to be hopeful but I wonder if hope is even enough.

[cutemee128]

Had a dream that my parent got into a car accident; so I woke up just completely terrified. It was one of the worst feeling in the world; I literally got up and went to see what they're doing. Didn't feel like crying but it did make me really bothered because that feeling kept coming back and kept replaying in my head.



Four months is definetly not short. If you go out with someone; you should have feeling for them to begin with. It seems to me like your boyfriend doesn't know what he wants; and he's treating you like that because you're pretty much letting him. If he don't want you; the relationship is off, if he does; it's back on... don't give him the power to make all the choices. If he's treating you like crap; it's because he know he can. I've seen this happened to many of my friends... their boyfriend decide when to break up and when to get back together; eventually... the situation will only get worst. If you have enough; then just break up with him once and for all... if you want to give him another chance; then change the way the relationship work; don't think that he'll eventually make up his mind of whether he wants to be with you or not; because chances are... it'll continue to go on until you wasted years of your lives.

I finally listened to my heart... and I finally did what's right. I confronted him about his feelings and he told me that he only felt for me as a friend. So, we broke up. Then came the tears and the memories... but I know that I'll heal. Because I'll find someone out there who will love me and he will eventually find someone who he can love.

[rinimeatballs]

Today i sat in a court room to support my friend for a crime she didn't do. She walked into the room and our eyes met and we both started tearing up. I hadn't seen her since that morning i took her to the police station for questioning. Seeing her in hand cuffs and a jump suit with all these news cameras on her like she was a monster hurt me so deeply. listening to her mom plea to the judge for a bond just makes your heart cry. She didn't get her bond. and you could just see how upset everyone was. It was unfair and they had no reason not to give her one. I couldn't look at her without crying. Today...sucked.

[`123]

i get sad every time i see poor people ... like the ones who have to get on the bus with a load of stuff ... it makes me cry having to see them do this.

[Raix]

Listening to my friend asking herself over and over why her bf broke up with her. They'd been going out for 7 months and in those 7 months, he seemed really happy. She really tried hard to make him happy too. They had arguments sometimes but got over them then they got into a fight about a game and he just broke up with her =/
When I saw them, they really did look happy. They got along so well. I'm not surprised she didn't see it coming.

It makes me sad that she keeps calling him "my bf" by mistake cause shes so used to talking about him and she really keeps saying how she really planned a future with him and how she thought that he did too. He's been acting really cold too. And yeah =( It makes me even sadder that I can't comfort her besides giving her some pathetic hugs.

She even came to school the next day and tried her best to be happy but she thought about it so much she lost it and ended up crying anyway, in the middle of study class. I was so glad I wasn't sitting alone with her, I wouldn't know what to say or do.

[yasmie]

The best friend I have a crush on is going away for college in less than a week.
We both know it just might never work out if we go out.
Liking each other in confusing way we both will never know.
I've tried to find another guy so I can fall in 'like' with someone else.
But I keep thinking of him.
I know he'll find a much better girl in college.
Which means he won't be able to see me as much.
No more driving around randomly having nice long talks.
No more of him calling me at night so we can watch our drama together.
No more Rockband get-togethers at my house.
No more Pei Wei lunches.

And he's the only guy I know who is worth my tears.

I want him to have a happy life and do whatever he needs to get that.
But when it means another girl, I can't help but break down.

[rectitude*]

my friend's in the hospital right now,
she just went yesterday & i didn't know about it until today.
so sad
i haven't talk to her for awhile, too.

[tray songz!]

I don't wanna let go of my ex.
this entire summer he's been acting like there's still a chance between me and him
and keeps insisting that he still wants to be with me
lately I've wanted him really bad.
he's leaving for college next month and I KNOW he's going to meet new girls and fall for someone
but I don't wanna see him with anyone else
I feel extremely selfish .____.

and the worst part is I haven't let any of my friends know that I still like him.

[brightstars90]

I don't wanna let go of my ex.
this entire summer he's been acting like there's still a chance between me and him
and keeps insisting that he still wants to be with me
lately I've wanted him really bad.
he's leaving for college next month and I KNOW he's going to meet new girls and fall for someone
but I don't wanna see him with anyone else
I feel extremely selfish .____.

and the worst part is I haven't let any of my friends know that I still like him.

i have the same problem. He keeps confusing me and im not sure what to do anymore.