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#3201 User is offline   `deelicious 

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Posted 06 January 2008 - 04:56 AM

QUOTE (lazybuttcheeks♥ @ Jan 6 2008, 06:52 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAA >.<
i've reached the limit to the amount of paracetamol i'm allowed to have per day, and now i'm stuck without painkillers and it still aches. the pain went away for a little while but it's coming back again and i really cant take this right now, school is starting again tomorrow and my face has exploded with pimples and i'm just really really frustrated.
do any of you girls know some things that might ease the pain without drugs? it would be a great help =)


edit: lol I was so annoyed with myself I forgot to mention that I'm talking about menstrual pains.


first of all, i would take ibuprofen instead of paracetamol. i find that it works much faster and is more effective. i know periods can be painful but what i do at night is sleep with a hot water bottle and take a dosage of ibuprofen.

other girls may disagree with this but i find not moving helps. rest as much as you can. do whatever u feel like such as eating, reading a book or just sitting down watching tv all day; it may take your mind off the pain. it only hurts because your thinking of it and your brain is telling you that it hurts. but anyway, thats what i do when i have sevre abdominal pain from menstruation. i used to go pale and faint within seconds.

maybe the pill may help with your menstrual pain; and also, go to the toilet as much as you can.
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Posted 06 January 2008 - 09:04 PM

What do I do when I come so close to having sex with my boyfriend, but end up getting terrified of the pain??? I'm still a virgin and I know that sex is supposed to feel good after the first time... but I'm still really scared of the pain sad.gif ... Please help!
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Posted 06 January 2008 - 09:14 PM

QUOTE (doink @ Jan 6 2008, 11:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
What do I do when I come so close to having sex with my boyfriend, but end up getting terrified of the pain??? I'm still a virgin and I know that sex is supposed to feel good after the first time... but I'm still really scared of the pain sad.gif ... Please help!



use lubrication such as ky jelly or something and get him to finger you first but other than that...i say, just deal with it. its gonna happen sooner or later, so its better just to deal with the pain. dont be scared.
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Posted 07 January 2008 - 08:53 AM

QUOTE (lazybuttcheeks♥ @ Jan 6 2008, 01:52 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAA >.<
i've reached the limit to the amount of paracetamol i'm allowed to have per day, and now i'm stuck without painkillers and it still aches. the pain went away for a little while but it's coming back again and i really cant take this right now, school is starting again tomorrow and my face has exploded with pimples and i'm just really really frustrated.
do any of you girls know some things that might ease the pain without drugs? it would be a great help =)


edit: lol I was so annoyed with myself I forgot to mention that I'm talking about menstrual pains.


Go to your doctors and ask for something to ease the pain. My friend has the same problem and the doctor prescribed her the pill (as there are many types and you don't necessary need to use it as birth control) which can be used to regulate periods and minimise stomach pains.
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Posted 07 January 2008 - 09:31 AM

QUOTE (doink @ Jan 6 2008, 11:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
What do I do when I come so close to having sex with my boyfriend, but end up getting terrified of the pain??? I'm still a virgin and I know that sex is supposed to feel good after the first time... but I'm still really scared of the pain sad.gif ... Please help!



Like Chineseduckling said, try using lubrication or have him finger you first. It's not something extremely painful so don't stress too much about it, you'll be fine.


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Posted 07 January 2008 - 02:32 PM

QUOTE (doink @ Jan 6 2008, 09:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
What do I do when I come so close to having sex with my boyfriend, but end up getting terrified of the pain??? I'm still a virgin and I know that sex is supposed to feel good after the first time... but I'm still really scared of the pain sad.gif ... Please help!


Yeah, I agree with the advice given by the previous members. It's really not that bad if you're wet enough. It might take a few tries to get the angle right, though, and that may add to the pain. And for some people it doesn't just hurt the first time (not to scare you more), so be prepared for that.

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Posted 07 January 2008 - 03:45 PM

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What If I had Mine Twice In One month? One The 5th and 30th..It's Not The First Time This Has Happened. Should I be Worried? Is That Normal?

Irregular periods are very normal despite it being called 'irregular' smile.gif You'll probably 'skip' your January period then and get it at the end of the month or early February. That's how my periods were like too. smile.gif

QUOTE (doink @ Jan 6 2008, 09:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
What do I do when I come so close to having sex with my boyfriend, but end up getting terrified of the pain??? I'm still a virgin and I know that sex is supposed to feel good after the first time... but I'm still really scared of the pain sad.gif ... Please help!


Just want to add, relax and enjoy the sensations. If you're thinking about pain you're going to tense your muscles, make it tighter and that can make it more painful.
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Posted 07 January 2008 - 04:54 PM

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Posted 07 January 2008 - 08:35 PM

I've been taking my BCP at 9:00pm. I wanted~ to switch to 10:00pm, because I'm usually still at work at nine, and it's really quite inconvenient and makes me take the pills half an hour/an hour late because I'm busy working. Soo, after the placebo pills of my last pack, I started taking the active pills at 10:00pm. Is this change okay? =\
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Posted 08 January 2008 - 04:35 PM

When I get my period, usually on the first day..I have a weird urge that I need to poo (but I DON'T)..especially while sitting. It just feels like I'm gonna let out a big fart or something ><! It's not really painful but reaaally uncomfortable. Help?
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Posted 08 January 2008 - 04:35 PM

other girls may disagree with this but i find not moving helps.
^ I agree, sometimes it hurts a lot more to move.

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Posted 08 January 2008 - 05:01 PM

QUOTE (Ringo. @ Jan 7 2008, 08:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I've been taking my BCP at 9:00pm. I wanted~ to switch to 10:00pm, because I'm usually still at work at nine, and it's really quite inconvenient and makes me take the pills half an hour/an hour late because I'm busy working. Soo, after the placebo pills of my last pack, I started taking the active pills at 10:00pm. Is this change okay? =\


Yes, it should be fine as long as you're taking it because I've been doing that quite a lot. laugh.gif
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Posted 08 January 2008 - 07:22 PM

is anyone's boobs different sizes? cuz my left boob is bigger than my right...i always complain to my mom aabout it and she says it's cuz of my heart(?)...my left is a lil bigger than a B cup and my right is not even a B cup...


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Posted 08 January 2008 - 07:28 PM

QUOTE (iyeiluj @ Jan 8 2008, 09:22 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
is anyone's boobs different sizes? cuz my left boob is bigger than my right...i always complain to my mom aabout it and she says it's cuz of my heart(?)...my left is a lil bigger than a B cup and my right is not even a B cup...

everyone's boobs are never the same sizes. but if they are different to the point where they are different CUPS then o.o I don't know if that's normal.
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Posted 08 January 2008 - 08:09 PM

QUOTE (iyeiluj @ Jan 8 2008, 09:22 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
is anyone's boobs different sizes? cuz my left boob is bigger than my right...i always complain to my mom aabout it and she says it's cuz of my heart(?)...my left is a lil bigger than a B cup and my right is not even a B cup...



noone's boobs are the same size.


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Posted 08 January 2008 - 08:29 PM

it's normal to have one boob slightly bigger than the other.

I heard it depends on which hand do u use to write, such as if you're right-handed, the right boob is bigger.


if the difference is very significant, like one boob size A, and other one is C, some women have that, only by getting implants can make them look even.
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Post icon  Posted 09 January 2008 - 03:54 PM

i'm starting to get a little worried about my period.

By the way i am a virgin okay lol just to get that out of the way

its been normal for me to skip alot of months between my periods like.. once i only had 4 periods in one year.. with out taking any pills and such... and now i'm 16, isnt that suppose to stop now???? i havent had my period since..... september... unsure.gif
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Posted 09 January 2008 - 03:57 PM

^ You're still young so period cycles often get really off. Are you stressed right now? That could contribute to it also.
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Posted 09 January 2008 - 04:58 PM

Do I have a cut or sore spot in my vagina? The first time I've been fingered deep, I bled. Figured it was my hymen that broke so I disregarded that. But...I noticed that whenever that happens and it's deep, for lack of better words "my wetness" doesn't come out clear, but instead it looks like there is a little blood mixed in it. I would go to the gyno to check up, except I would have to tell my mom about what's wrong...and I don't want to do that. I'm under her insurance policy. I've heard of cuts and sores inside the vagina, and that it takes a long time to heal. So does it sound like there is a cut, abrasion or something of that sort? Thanks in advance.
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Posted 09 January 2008 - 11:07 PM

hey guysss. i havent been feeling well lately so i thought i'd ask you guys.

lately (ever since new years) i've been getting dizzy spells in the morning. sometimes i'll lose my appetite and i wont feel like anything EXCEPT for fruit or fluids. in the morning, i'll wake up and be perfectly fine.. then when i come out of the shower, i'll feel like throwing up. and it gets better after i go outside for some fresh air. and some days im so tired that i dont want to move out of my bed.
it sure sounds like morning sickness, but i'm not exactly sexually active so i guess that's out of the question.

my friend suggested that i'm probably getting my period soon and im just getting hormonal fluctuations? i'm pretty worried about myself right now so i just wanted to ask what you guys though..

any help will be greatly appreciated~ thanks!

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