[felinius]

Okay.

So can I get BCP without my mom[or dad, even though he's in China O_O][he already doesn't like my boy XD] finding out? I heard Planned Parenthood is confidential, as if your doctor if you're under 18, but wouldn't it show up on the bill sent to my parents? O_O;;; HELP!

PP has some forms to fill out where you can decide whether or not people have access to your forms / PP can call you / consent to parents be able to see or not. It's mainly privacy forms that deals with it.

Only reason that your parents would find out about BCP is if you charged it to your insurance. Depending on where you live, you can get BCP for free.

[joolee.]

I remember randomly spotting out of no where for two days straight and then it went away. I am not expecting my period until the weekend. (Spotting happened last week.) Is this normal?

[joongielove]

They don't send you bills and it's always confidential.

PP has some forms to fill out where you can decide whether or not people have access to your forms / PP can call you / consent to parents be able to see or not. It's mainly privacy forms that deals with it.

Only reason that your parents would find out about BCP is if you charged it to your insurance. Depending on where you live, you can get BCP for free.

Thank you! Now I just gotta pluck up the nerve to go there. TT_TT

[hodduk]

Hi I need help/advice...I don't know if this is the right place to post this or if this is appropriate or not..if it's not I'll take it down.

The other night I was at a party and had drank quite a bit. So anyways me and this guy were just messing around upstairs..I remember that part. But then I just remember all of the sudden someone was at the door yelling at us and I looked down and I was completely naked. I don't remember taking my clothes off or anything..nothing at all. I don't even remember what we were doing when the person opened the door or anything. It was like my mind/memory just shut off. But he is telling people that we did it. And also I was on my period at that time.

I just have a few questions...

-Is that rape if we did do it?
-Do you think maybe he put drugs in my drink or do I just not remember because I was drunk?
-Could I get pregnant even though I was on my period?
-Is there any way to tell that I did or did not have sex? (I never did it before)

Thanks

[ohhlalakelly]

Hi I need help/advice...I don't know if this is the right place to post this or if this is appropriate or not..if it's not I'll take it down.

The other night I was at a party and had drank quite a bit. So anyways me and this guy were just messing around upstairs..I remember that part. But then I just remember all of the sudden someone was at the door yelling at us and I looked down and I was completely naked. I don't remember taking my clothes off or anything..nothing at all. I don't even remember what we were doing when the person opened the door or anything. It was like my mind/memory just shut off. But he is telling people that we did it. And also I was on my period at that time.

I just have a few questions...

-Is that rape if we did do it?
-Do you think maybe he put drugs in my drink or do I just not remember because I was drunk?
-Could I get pregnant even though I was on my period?
-Is there any way to tell that I did or did not have sex? (I never did it before)

Thanks

- I don't think it's rape if you did do it because you were clearly messing around with him. But if you said No and he still did it, it's rape. It's just... you don't remember.
- You probably don't remember because you were drunk.
- Yes, you could get pregnant, you just have a slimmer chance.
- I'm unsure about the last question, sorry!

Was the guy drunk too?

[chineseduckling]

Hi I need help/advice...I don't know if this is the right place to post this or if this is appropriate or not..if it's not I'll take it down.

The other night I was at a party and had drank quite a bit. So anyways me and this guy were just messing around upstairs..I remember that part. But then I just remember all of the sudden someone was at the door yelling at us and I looked down and I was completely naked. I don't remember taking my clothes off or anything..nothing at all. I don't even remember what we were doing when the person opened the door or anything. It was like my mind/memory just shut off. But he is telling people that we did it. And also I was on my period at that time.

I just have a few questions...

-Is that rape if we did do it?
-Do you think maybe he put drugs in my drink or do I just not remember because I was drunk?
-Could I get pregnant even though I was on my period?
-Is there any way to tell that I did or did not have sex? (I never did it before)

Thanks

- no, its not rape. i mean, seriously, you guys were drunk.
- you were probably just drunk and hammered out
- yes you can (not getting pregnant on your period is all a myth)
- no, there isn't really. you could get a test or something to see if your hymen is broken, but that's unreliable since the hymen breaks by itself due to tampons or sports.

[hodduk]

Thanks ohhlalakelly and chineseduckling

ohhlalakelly - He might've been drunk but I'm not 100% sure..but yeah I know that I said I didn't want to do it

I just think it was weird that I remembered doing stuff with him and I remember stuff before that..it's just I don't remember anything after, only except that I had nothing on.

[saranghaese7en]

Hi I need help/advice...I don't know if this is the right place to post this or if this is appropriate or not..if it's not I'll take it down.

The other night I was at a party and had drank quite a bit. So anyways me and this guy were just messing around upstairs..I remember that part. But then I just remember all of the sudden someone was at the door yelling at us and I looked down and I was completely naked. I don't remember taking my clothes off or anything..nothing at all. I don't even remember what we were doing when the person opened the door or anything. It was like my mind/memory just shut off. But he is telling people that we did it. And also I was on my period at that time.

I just have a few questions...

-Is that rape if we did do it?
-Do you think maybe he put drugs in my drink or do I just not remember because I was drunk?
-Could I get pregnant even though I was on my period?
-Is there any way to tell that I did or did not have sex? (I never did it before)

Thanks

-if you were drunk.. =X =X
-well, it could've been both.... but normally you don't remember anything after being hammered anyway, but he possibly could've
-yes
-you can always go to your doctor but you can never be sure...

good luck =X

[Awkward Smile]

But if the guy wasn't drunk and he was taking advantage of you, that's just another different story..

[felinius]

Hi I need help/advice...I don't know if this is the right place to post this or if this is appropriate or not..if it's not I'll take it down.

The other night I was at a party and had drank quite a bit. So anyways me and this guy were just messing around upstairs..I remember that part. But then I just remember all of the sudden someone was at the door yelling at us and I looked down and I was completely naked. I don't remember taking my clothes off or anything..nothing at all. I don't even remember what we were doing when the person opened the door or anything. It was like my mind/memory just shut off. But he is telling people that we did it. And also I was on my period at that time.

I just have a few questions...

-Is that rape if we did do it?
-Do you think maybe he put drugs in my drink or do I just not remember because I was drunk?
-Could I get pregnant even though I was on my period?
-Is there any way to tell that I did or did not have sex? (I never did it before)

Thanks

It can (i'd say is) be rape. Because you were drunk, you did not fully give consent in the right mind and you could most likely pursue action.

He could have put drugs. It may be too late, but you could get tests done to see if you have any drugs left in your system.

It's a possibility to get pregnant on your period.

A rape kit could tell if you have had sex. You could also take a look at your hymen (if you had it before) and see if it's broken.

[GOOMBA]

I remember randomly spotting out of no where for two days straight and then it went away. I am not expecting my period until the weekend. (Spotting happened last week.) Is this normal?

Did you recently change your BCP? If not, get a pregnancy test. ..........................................

[PetitePrincesseMai]

^ I odn't think she needs it but in case

is spotting a little normal?
I don't think that my period is supposed to come now (sometimes i start to spot before my period), I still have like 2 weeks or so before it is supposed to come.

Also, the spotting was normal red the first time but now it is brown, so is that bad?
I have only been spotting for like 3 days and not alot, but I am worried >.<

Spotting is normal. I take the birth control pill and I had TONS of spotting for even a week! And then I had some each month! i went to see the doc and she changed my pill now I don't do some anymore

So do you take the pill? Is yes, go see the doc so she changes it. If not, it depends for how long you had it. Spotting is normal. it's like your vagina is "cleaning" itself from junk in it XD So it's completely normal. And it's only 3 days I had it for more than a week : / And I'm very healthy

I remember randomly spotting out of no where for two days straight and then it went away. I am not expecting my period until the weekend. (Spotting happened last week.) Is this normal?

Yes it is as I said it's your vagina that's cleaning itself from junk in it. If you take the pill it's because your body got use to it and you have to change it. But spotting once in a while is totally normal. I foyu don't take the pill there's nothing to panic. If you still spot in teh next months I consider you go see the doctor

I had brown to black spotting >_> I had them a lot :X IM SOO GLAD IT STOPPED

[hodduk]

Thanks you guys who answered..it was a lot of help

[GOOMBA]

Spotting is normal. I take the birth control pill and I had TONS of spotting for even a week! And then I had some each month! i went to see the doc and she changed my pill now I don't do some anymore

It's supposed to stop within the first 3 months you change or start taking your birth control. My doctor told me that if spotting continues after the 3-4 months, it is not normal and you should change your pill.

[PetitePrincesseMai]

It's supposed to stop within the first 3 months you change or start taking your birth control. My doctor told me that if spotting continues after the 3-4 months, it is not normal and you should change your pill.

Uuuh... that's what I said? Well I said spotting is normal XD but of course if it does that a lot you have to change it )I changed mine and have no spotting thats what I said no? O_O
*realizes*

Oh I said spotting was normal every month LOL sorry it's not XD but once a is normal SORRY!

[chineseduckling]

im about to start on lutera, its a generic bcp and i was wondering is anyone taking it? or if its good or not?

[vietbabi]

Hi I need help/advice...I don't know if this is the right place to post this or if this is appropriate or not..if it's not I'll take it down.

The other night I was at a party and had drank quite a bit. So anyways me and this guy were just messing around upstairs..I remember that part. But then I just remember all of the sudden someone was at the door yelling at us and I looked down and I was completely naked. I don't remember taking my clothes off or anything..nothing at all. I don't even remember what we were doing when the person opened the door or anything. It was like my mind/memory just shut off. But he is telling people that we did it. And also I was on my period at that time.

I just have a few questions...

-Is that rape if we did do it?
-Do you think maybe he put drugs in my drink or do I just not remember because I was drunk?
-Could I get pregnant even though I was on my period?
-Is there any way to tell that I did or did not have sex? (I never did it before)

Thanks

i think it's rape. first of all you weren't conscious and didn't give him your consent.

[seethewayxx]

in january 2005, i got my period. it went away in 2006 and just a few days ago i got it back. the blood is a dark brown and i was wondering if that's normal? :|

[Xiaoba1tu]

You didn't get it for a year (2006)?
Mm, I think you should see your doctor about it. My friend has missing periods for over several months and she has to visit the doctor's and get tests done or something.

By the way, your sig has 3 images. I think 2 is the maximum.

[foreverandaday]

in january 2005, i got my period. it went away in 2006 and just a few days ago i got it back. the blood is a dark brown and i was wondering if that's normal? :|

You're still young, and from the looks of it, your bmi is high (considerably obese) all of those can affect your period